Yes to talking/chatting, no to dating multiple girls being a smart move. Maybe possible with two first dates the same week, but that is it, then make a choice. If you are equally into both then you are not really into either. If you want something serious I think it is better to invest in one person at a time and not keep looking and comparing with others.
Anyone you had some dates with and you hit it off is better than how another person looks on paper.
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I've done it a bit, but just talking, so the first couple of times. I would never do it like for dating, I'm exclusive with one person only. I think you should make up your mind if you're talking to multiple as soon as possible. It's also fair to the other person. And, if I don't think we're a match, I tell them straight up.
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It's not always what you do it's how you're doing it that can become the issue...
When you talk to multiple people, are they aware they're not the only one you're talking to? (Then no big deal)
Or do you let them think they're the only one you're talking to? Make excuses or lies to cover the fact that your talking to other females? (Cuz that's where the issue comes in)
And then also, are you okay with not being the only person they're talking to? Because if you think it's okay to talk to multiple people to weigh your options, then they should also have that option. Can't expect to be someone's "only" if they're not your "only".Question: How would you feel if they did it to you? I find that a cowards move like I told somebody else who did that to me. It's manipulative and it's wrong. Nobody can force you to do anything you don't want to do. Period. I say your spewing BS right now and your the one who wants to control women. Nobody is better fit for you. You are dating for the other person, not solely all for yourself. This is a person who have red flags and insecurities and both of those women will get hurt. They are better off with other men. You can do what you want. But understand women like myself would rather drop you like a bad habit. Selfish and narcissitic. People who do this are secretly unhappy. Guys who do that are being miserable. When women do this it's deserparate to not be alone. I can't with such men.
Depends on if you two have gone exclusive. If you're saying you are single when you are not, then obviously that isn't a brilliant thing to do.
However if it's just female friends or just being friendly in general, then I think it can be ok if you ask me. Or maybe you might be finding a date and you just so happen to be meeting with multiple girls to see who you like best. And that's ok as well in my opinion.
Basically, if you aren't committed yet and/or are just being friends with girls, then sure. If you are committed though then be sure to keep it friendly and you should stay out of trouble.I think it is okay yes. You have people who consider being polygamous with multiple lovers at one time so they do not constantly see the same face and voice every single day but also if you are not interested in love such as myself and you are only interested in friendship then obviously you have the opportunity to build friendships with those people over time regardless of gender. More friends means most likely more diverse input and more responses to issues you deal with or perhaps more suggestions for things to consider.
As long as everyone you are talking to are aware that you aren't being exclusive with them, there's nothing wrong with talking to multiple people.
Yes it's more or less expected early in a relationship, otherwise you can't give people a chance and to make a good choice out of whatever options you got. You should not hide or lie about it. But this is just okay when your still qualify as single, as soon as you make your pick you should be open and close down remaining not selected options, not just ghost them.
any guy who does this is a complete scumbag and since you're wanting to this that makes you a bigger piece of shit then the women you whine bitch and complain about who do this sort of shit with guys. fucking hypocrite. Here's a fucking clue for you. how about actually talking to a girl and getting to know her to see if you like her or not and to see if you're compatable with her instead of getting your dick wet in every vagina you see. so quit screwing around and quit being a hypocritical piece of shit.
Well I'm going to put it to you like this nobody told me that I had to put a cap on how many friends I have and what sex they were or what color they were so if I talk to five girls at once I talked to five girls ones I treat them all the same you know but if there's one that I like she would be the should be the you know the one you know I could have as many girl friends as a damn well please there's many friends is that damn well please any color has that damn well please
Yea just be upfront about it if asked you’re not doing anything wrong unless boundaries were established already but before that play the field god knows she sure is
There doesn't seem to be any harm in it so long you're not stringing them with flirting.
Yeah, as long as they know they aren't exclusive with you
Well i know most girls speak to multiple guys at the same time as well.
If you haven't indicated or said you an item, then you merely speaking to friends and acquaintances.Yeah it's okay to do this, but myself i can't help but feel guilty. Cuz i really don't want to hurt either so i just end up torturing myself from who to choice eventually, not that healty i know :) but hey, at least they get less hurt
If you’re single and just looking at your options yes of course it’s fine
It is impossible to pay attention to more than one thing at a time. When you multitask you are really doing many different things and doing them all badly.
Of course, why not? And age has 0, Nada zip nothing to do with it. Your meeting new people and
Personalities. Those things are part of life’s spices!If you are playing the field and dating, then yes. However if you are in a relationship, that is not good.
At once?
The answer is No. One at a time before they move on to the next in the dating phase or even talking phase during dating.You should BE with just one girl. But TALK? You can talk to all the females in the world at once and it would still be ok. Work by eliminating those not suitable for you, like you've said, until you remain with the relevant ones!
I’m single and talk with as many woman as I damn well please. There is that and just because I talk with them does not remotely mean I view them as an option. Just that I talk with them is all.
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