Is it okay to date 2 girls at once?

[Anonymous]

I 2 girls is it okay to date both at once?

[Tdieseler]

Omg... after reading all the opinions... come on. Are you people really that fucking stupid. Dude... its ok to date 2 people at once... its just dating.
but do it with the intent to narrow down your choice to just one. hell do 3, 4, 5 at once, but you would only be stressing yourself out.
All these idiots talking about "its cheating"... fuckers dont even know what cheating is or means.
These are the same cunts who do online dating and are talking to 12 guys/girls at the same fucking time like its not the same concept.

What im trying to say is that its ok to date 2 at the same time because you are trying to make a choice... but if you intend to keep it as 2 for as long as you can, let me put it this way... its stupid, and it gets really stressful. No point leading someone on.

[Tdieseler]

lol @Shedazi blocked me so she could have the final say looool... more power to you girl.. omg!! you got the last say... oooh means you must be right... hahahahaha... moron. You know you are full of shite... thats why you used the block button so i dont show you that you are full of shite... anyway.. here's my response mo mo. read it and weep.

I actually have more respect for strippers, pornstars and prostitutes... im glad you brought that up. see... those 3 sets of labels go straight to the point, you see them, you know what they are about.. nuff said. but "regular" women, you see them, you have no idea what they are about.
I once said that ALL women were prostitutes. someone asked me how/why. i said simple.. in prostitution, someone wants sex in exchange for money, another wants money in exchange for sex... isn't that the same thing in regular dating? woman wants to go on dates and do crap blah blah... which costs money and time and the guy is "supposed" to pay for it... before she agrees to get sticky. matter of fact... i respect prostitutes more... the only thing they take in exchange is money. on the other hand, there's money, time, emotions, thoughts, memory... and a TON of other shit used as payment for one simple act lol...

I treat love as a business because it makes more sense that way. between me and you darling.. i bet i can define love better. Because i know what it is... while you know what you want it to be or what its supposed to be. Get your head out of your fairy tales... love is work... and love hurts. it ain't roses which is the reason you moron females chase after it. love sucks for real. its like being handed something that keeps turning sour and you have to keep doing shit to keep it sweet and each time its some different method and you have to figure what that method is.

Thats why i stay away from it... and frankly dont give a shit if someone is getting strayed on. they probably fucked up somewhere.

[OlderAndWiser]

It is okay unless you do something to deceive them and make them think that you are dating them exclusively when you are not. That includes keeping your mouth shut if you know they have the wrong impression of your dating status.

[Shezadi]

Is it okay for a guy to date your sister and another girl at the same time?
Is it okay for a guy to date your daughter and another girl at the same time?
Is it okay for your father to cheat on your mother?

[LuvAsh]

👏👏👏👏

[Tdieseler]

@LuvAsh dont... just... dont...

[LuvAsh]

What are u even talking about?

[Shezadi]

@LuvAsh thank you little sister
I am going through hell right now, the teacher is showing a scary video about artificial arms, feel like running away, pray for me.

[LuvAsh]

Oh no!😩😩 I'll pray for you❤

[Shezadi]

@LuvAsh I read that phrase in your profile, it says, "You are only reading this, if you can't read." Sorry sister, but it fucked my mind. I don't get it. It is giving me a headache and what does it mean? Please explain.

[LuvAsh]

It's just a joke lol I need to change it because I'm tired of it too😂 but yeah its nothing serious. Its suppose to not make much sense.

[LuvAsh]

I just changed it back to one of my old ones☺

[Chaz269]

If my sister and the other girl know and are good with it, that's fine.
If my daughter and the other girl know and are good with it, that's fine.
The issue isn't cheating, so your last question is wholly out of context.

[Muhammad1999]

Is it ok for Shrek to marry another woman rather than fiona.

[Shezadi]

@Muhammad1999 I don't get it. I am confused.

[Tdieseler]

Im with @Chaz269 on this one. and frankly... i dont give a shit what my sisters do... and my daughter will be trained... courtesy of the "worst of the worst"... Me. and my father does "cheat" on my mom... but i dont blame him.

Me personally @Shezadi not only have i rewritten the dating game for myself, i also understand the true meaning of cheating, not the stupid shallow side people see. I someone strays (yes.. i call it stray) on you, YOU probably weren't doing some shit right... werent handling your business. I've "cheated" on a ton of girls... but I've never been "cheated" on. And no... its not because girls are "lifers" and just stick around... its because i know what to do to keep em with me... but they dont seem to know what makes me stick. and frankly, they didn't care.

so your whole point is moot

[Shezadi]

@Tdieseler you have no self-respect. Your mother carried you in her womb for 9 months and almost died giving birth you, she raised you, wiped your shit, bathed you and you don't care that your father cheats on your mother. What can I expect from a man who does not respect his own mother? Those girls surely believe in unconditional love. You treat love more like a business. You definitely believe in use and dump trend. You are a shameless person if you allow your female members to be whores, if you allow them to have one night stands, you are too scared to talk in front of them, and you will support people who will cheat on your female members, why don't you turn your female members into strippers and prostitutes and leave them in a brothel? Turn them into porn stars. Shame on you. You are not a man.

[StingRayxoxo]

Until you have established the conditions of a relationship, it’s okay. I always suggest focusing on getting to know one person at a time. But that’s just how I operate.

[Logorithim]

You don't say whether they each think they're in a exclusive relationship. That would definitely be wrong, no if and or buts. If each of you has an understanding that you can see other people and that there is nothing exclusive, I still don't think that is a good thing to do and would advise against it, but it's technically OK;

[coachTanthony]

The question should of been... Is it okay to date 2 girls at once and they both KNOW IT... of course it's okay but what are the circumstances?

[rjroy3]

Only if you make them both aware of the situation, then you're in the clear. They can't flip out justifiably if they've agreed to the situation, whether it be tacitly or explicitly. You run into problems when you're leading a girl on, or making a girl think it's one thing, when you're really doing something else. If you try and use the shitty line "we weren't official!", "we weren't together!", even tho you never had a straight up conversation of what your relationship is defined to be. If you gave her reason to think that the relationship is more serious than it is, then that is 100% on you. Because you lead her on. If you've been giving her every signal in the book that this is a serious exclusive type boyfriend/girlfriend type relationship, then you're fucking her over. And really fucking yourself over. Because if you had been straight up about the type of guy you were and what you want. You could openly have the type of relationship you really want, without feeling as if you need to pretend or hide it.

I remember I had a disagreement with a guy on here about that very thing. I was stating how it's okay to see more than one girl as long as you let the girls know what's up and he disagreed with me. He stated how it was none of the girls business who else he was sleeping with or that he was sleeping with anyone else at all. And to some small extent I agree. It's not her business who you are explicitly sleeping with and in the beginning it's not necessarily her business if you're seeing other girls, because you JUST met her. But if you're looking to have any ongoing relationship with a girl. She should be aware of what she's getting herself into, even if you don't have an explicit sitdown to discuss it. You don't want to lie to the girl. She still needs to know what's going on so that you're not screwing her over, by leading her on by making her think it's more serious than it is.

Like if you set boundaries for your relationship with a girl, to where it's clear it's pretty much just a sex thing. Then without even saying you're sleeping with other women, you're confirming to her that your relationship is not a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship and therefore if you do sleep with another woman she can't really protest. She may not like it, but if she knows what the relationship is then she's not going to protest.

[rjroy3]

If you don't want to be a girls boyfriend, then don't act like her boyfriend. If you want to see two girls, then make it clear that you're the guy who is seeing another girl. Don't hide it. Don't pretend. Be aware of their feelings. Don't be a dick. But don't back down and hide from what you want.

[MikeAndMolly]

If they both know and are okay with it.

Typically there is an implied assumption that neither person in a couple will date or be intimate with others. Your partner trusts you not to break that rule. If you violate your partner's trust, that's wrong and not okay.

However, if you establish that it is okay to date other people, either because you're in an open relationship, or because neither of you are ready to be exclusive yet and are only dating casually, then there is nothing wrong as long as you are both open and honest and you're not hurting anyone.

[Anonymous]

Only if:
- they both know about itand are fine with it
- it's completely platonic/first dates just meant for getting to know each other.

As soon as you start having second/third etc dates and get to the point where she might think it's heading towards a relationship, it's not okay to go behind her back.

I once dated a guy who openly told me at the first date that he thought I was nice/cute, but he didn't know me very well yet and he was also getting to know someone else around that same time. It was fine by me, just meant I wasn't going to do anything physical untill it changed.

[fem-ily]

Depends, do you mean like in a polyamorous relationship? Because if so, that’s a personal choice that you should discuss with both women to see if they are comfortable. And if you mean just dating two different women without them being aware of each other, then no, I would say it isn’t ok.

[sugarchateau]

Yes.
So here’s the thing, dating isn’t exclusive. Where girls get butthurt is they are choosing to fuck the guys they are dating and want it to be exclusive, but if you’re not in a relationship... you are a free bird and you should fly and explore opportunity. 🦅 be free. Also if people are fucking around, I hope y’all choose protection.

[sugarchateau]

Personally, I’ve chosen to be abstinent even though I’m dating so I’m free of guilt and biased lolol it’s okay to be selfish sometimes

[Poppykate]

This is a good way to be! 🙌 Get the know people first. Date around. Then when the relationship is exclusive, then have sex. It gets rid of a lot of drama!

[NatashaJ]

I love how men like you think this is ok but when a woman wants to date two men at once you guys lose shit like you might think you lose her to him because she realizes he way better than you lmaooo. What's with the disrespect for women nowadays you damn well know if a woman has ANY self-respect she should dump your ass in a heartbeat if you ask her this.

[dreadmyst]

Im guessing you are asking for the first few dates? in my opinion its ok to have dates with a few girls at the same time but by the 2nd or 3rd date (if it gets that far) you should be able to choose one and just be spending time with her.

If your meaning by having two relationships at same time as long as both parties are ok with it then there's not a issue but if it's being kept secret it will backfire on you. Open relationships are a thing but it requires honesty and a lot of trust.

[lightbulb27]

yep, I've had a nice girl I was dating date another guy at same time, so all is fair. I think gotta choose one at some point, or none. In my value system, it's just getting to know and when pick one let the other know. Actually, I think it boosts your esteem and makes them feel like you have value... as long as you are open what you are doing, is ok.

I don't think it is a good idea to get serious with more than one.

[Kaneki05]

Well duh.
Why would anyone thinking dating more than one person is not okay.

The whole point of dating is to do it with muitple people.
You should never be with 2 girls at the same time but been with somone as a boyfriend is completely different to dating.

Dating is when your unsure if you like them as friend or as more or maybe not at all. So it's fine

[Kaneki05]

Tbh reading some of what othee people said, sound like most of them are getting confused with dating and actaully been in realtionship and are thinking more like your talking about been in a realtionship with 2 people.

So there saying it's wrong when it is cleary not cause your only talking about dating.

Plus watch most dating shows most of the time one person goes on a date with 3-5 guys/girls and then decides which one they want.
That's what dating is for so aboustly fine.

[Browneye57]

Of course. Where is it written that you must be exlusive to date someone? Isn't that why you date? To be able to discern whether they're a match? Whether they're worthy?

So yeah, date a lot. Spin plates as they say. You'll find one worth investing more in and you can drop the others when you're ready.

Just don't tell them all - have your own life. Some plates will drop on their own. And ALWAYS have a backup plan. The women do!

[Ranger2019]

No... in my opinion that's horrible. If someone did that with me I'd tell them to fuck off... I'd never do that to anyone, what a terrible way to devalue a potential life partner. When i see people do it i view it as arrogant, shallow inconsiderate and selfish.

[Anonymous]

Of cours yes!! Why are you even asking this question, dude? The girls should even contribute their money to buy you what you want, take care of you in turn. and.. oh oh! they could also do thressomes with you, and I wish you with all my heart that one of them will catch a deadly std that she will transmit to you. Good luck ❤️

[TrustOfWorthington]

I was wondering XD

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t know if the dislikes are from the polyamourous Peoples or from some that didn’t understand the sarcasme 😆

[TrustOfWorthington]

Good question 😅

[Anonymous]

Depends. Some people are more anxious than others. Many people assume when you date you date like they date. For some people that means 1 person at a time always for others that means as many as you want until you commit to something exclusive. Neither is correct because it’s just a matter of opinion. So it’s best to just know where you stand and where they stand on this and most problems can be avoided.

[Daniel3035]

Perfectly fine unless your officially commited to one then no. But if your getting to know both your not commited and hence can’t cheat on what you don’t have both have equal opportunity to be with you so whoevers best will. If people are saying no that’s cheating ignore them clearly they don’t know what they’re saying or what cheating involves ie being together and getting with someone else.

[Daniel3035]

Ps don’t think you need to tell them since that’s bs your not obligated to tell a person your getting to know your other options or vice versa. That’s like dating someone and you having to tell them the password to your Facebook account because of her trust and insecurities no wth? A practical stranger doesn’t have the right to know anything at thst point until that person becomes something to you.

[ecfresh]

Of course it is. You can date multiple people until you decide to be committed or exclusive. Once you decide to become her boyfriend, then you can only date one woman at that time.

[On_the_other_hand]

Until you agree that you are exclusive you can date as many people as you like. If they ask if you are seeing anyone else then tell the the truth. And if you intend to start dating others then let them know you are not exclusive.

[AlienChickk]

Depends on the situation, if both of them agree to seeing other people sure. But one or both of them might want to make it more serious at some point, and then you’ll have to make a decision.

[Blackbrowny]

Jeah, it also depends what all of you want from your relationship, some people just want sex anyway and aren't willing to go further anyway so if thats the case for all 3 i dont see the problem

[nonratracereality]

Its up to the individual. People love the idea of exclusivity but as they say you're dating testing the waters. The standards by which you live by will determine which course of action you take.