Questions: Dating

Imagine dating a guy from a really rich family and he earns double what you earn, making good money.

Let’s say he is cautious he pays for the first dates then requests 50/50. So you set up a joint account and put equal money in. He also gets you modest, not like designer stuff.

The reasons are due to concerns of being used, finding a gold digger, and being fair. Also concerns of like what if the girl leaves you and you’ve made this financial commitment to pay for the majority.

My Ex left me and the main reason was that I didn’t make her feel special. We did 50/50, she said she is used to guys paying for the majority and that I didn’t gift and buy her flowers.

One thing is that I do make a lot of money and my family is really rich.

Our relationship was very intense 4 months long and met the parents and talked a lot about marriage. I did gift her but not expensive stuff. she was very special to me and very beautiful.

Did I make a big mistake there? She isn’t poor, makes okay money.