Polls: Dating

When my bf and i first started dating I noticed he had some marks on his upper inside bicep. He had been working on his derby car and he ssid that the bruises were probably from that. I could tell one was a bruise but there was about 3 or 4 little ones that almost looked like hickeys. He had another bruise on his side which he said was from holding some tool. Around the time I saw them it was shortly after his brothers wedding. He said it also could of been from people grabbing him. He was really drunk that night and even grabbed his sister in laws Ass when he was dancing with her. Which was the bride...we have been dating for 10 months now. This all happend when we were dating for about a month. I'm only bringing it up now because he has another bruise on his upper inside bicep but I can also tell it's a bruise. Those other ones made me. curious. Can little bruises sometimes look like hickeys. I can't remember the exact color but it was more reddish and they weren't that far apart from eachother. When he was working on his derby car he was using this one thing where it has sparks going all over and you have to wear a safety thing over your head. Welding I think it is? Ha.. but anyways he said it also could of been from that. Can that leave marks like that?

I am 5'2 227 lbs. Health wise, that's very very overweight. I'm only 18 and I hate being so big. It seems like guys want a smaller framed girl, and my belly and thighs just don't make the cut. It feels disgusting being in this body. I'm hoping that one day I can lose the weight and be short and petite like I want to be.
Enough Ranting.
My question is: Why do guys prefer smaller women? Why is obese disgusting to most people?

I told some guys at the start that I'm not really interested in dating them. They said they were happy to be friends. A short while after, they again try to get into the dating zone with me. When I tell them again that I'm serious, that I'm really not interested in dating them, they cut me off and our friendship all together.

Girls put a lot of thought into who they'd want to date. If for some reason or another, I'm just not into you in that way, I mean it. There's no returns or second chances. Most of my girlfriends are the same. When I see a guy as a friend, and he starts ignoring me just because I was honest about not wanting to date him, it does hurt me and make things very awkward.

So guys, I just wanted to hear your opinion on this. If a girl you were romantically interested in friendzoned you, would you be happy to be friends or would you just drop them?

Hello :)

Guys!! I know that guys hate it when girls wonder if they are skinny enough, so that is why I'm asking on here :) I'm going to uni in September and I was just wondering what guys would prefer... I know that every guy is different so I'm asking for your personal opinion!!

Please look at the poll and select which one you prefer :)

Thanks for helping me out !!

I met a guy on Friday , we really hit it off. I sent him a pic of a joke we joked about Saturday night and he responded hahaha you would.

It is now Thursday and no contact from him at all? I'm not sure what the deal is. We spent all Friday /Saturday afternoon together. Could tell he was into me.

Is he just playing cool or maybe lost interest? I know he has a full time job and part time going to school for masters, so maybe he is busy? I don't know! HELP!