I thought we women were the insecure ones! I have read so many topics from guys concerned about their skin colour, height, weight, culture, and of course now, hair. Attractiveness can be what you make of yourself and how a woman sees you. Yes, some women make it quite clear they don't want to date a bald man, and there are some men who make it clear they just want a skinny woman with big boobs. But then you have the rest of us who see attractiveness in a different way that has nothing to do with that.
If a woman puts her order in for a good looking man with all the physical traits she's after, she would find she is limiting herself. Once she finds that the guy she wants, let's say he's tall, long dark hair, big blue eyes, swarthy skin, nice teeth, athletic body, warm voice, clean fingernails... and he rejects her, slowly she begins changing her order so that she becomes open to possibilities of seeing attractiveness with different traits. So she may meet a guy who has all she's looking for, but he's balding and therefore, shaves his head - but he still has the warm voice and nice body she's after. Will she turn him down?--probably not.
So many men of all different looks manage to get in to relationships, including hundreds of thousands balding men. I think the women who holler the loudest about wanting good hair and other features they deem as important are the ones who make guys like you feel insecure about it. We're not all like that, and women everywhere are willing to get together with an awesome guy with sex appeal with or without his hair. Look at The Rock, Bruce Willis, LL Cool J, Andre Agassiz, and so many others!
well look. u have to focus on the best things in u like hobbies and sport even if u dont have these aspects u totally have something special like maybe ur funny or a good speaker :) ... the look never matter if a girl loved u give her one month and she will forget how u look but the way u tret her and u personality will stay 4 ever in her mind and heart.
No...
Some girls like that.
But personally I don't. If you're balding, I believe the best course of action for you is to shave it off and grow a beard.
If you think you would look bad like that, then perhaps you're right and should just work with what you've got.
You're not even remotely in trouble. My lifting buddy for most of college went bald at 18 and shaved his head and embraced the hell out of it.
He was tall, grew a bad ass beard, muscular, had a few tattoos, and most importantly had unbreakable confidence. Needless to say I never saw him without a gorgeous girl on his arm.
Going bald is a hyper-masculine thing. And for the most part we can't really stop it. So embrace your masculinity and become a hyper-masculine dude. You'll attract hyper-feminine women because of it.
P. S. We were both bouncers at the same nightclub, and I'm taller than him and equally built, and I can honestly say men were more intimidated by him which just shows the increase in perceived dominance.
If you can pull off a Billy Zane or a Patrick Stewart, it can look very masculine.
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But you have to put in the work to back that baldness up, cause it rarely looks good on someone who might be obese and just doesn't take good care of themselves. Not saying you ARE obese, but this is just how I personally view the situation.
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I don't think it's a really big component of women's attraction, especially once they are in their mid to late twenties and are themselves aging slowly.
You can't judge your own appearance based off of what you seek in women. Hair isn't as important in a man for women... which biologically makes sense.
Anyway, you can try finasteride if you want. I do think, though, that you probably do not seem as "bald" to most women as you seem to yourself. You know that one girl who is always so fretted about her few gray hairs, even though you don't give a shit, and you know no one else does? Same premise.
I shave my head smooth... been doing it since I was 20. I get women wanting to touch it all the time. lol
I am similar in appearance to Jason Statham, slim built and muscular. I have been commented on my appearance and get lots of looks from women of all ages. I have a goatee and sometimes I do the full stubble thing.
I am outdoors a lot so I have a slightly tanned complexion... I dress well so the look seems to work. I find when I wear my black suit and white dress shirt, I tend to get a lot of glances and stares.
So I think being bald changes it up and gives girls some variety. It does not hinder the attractiveness of the women either. I have dated some great looking women, and my current gf is very pretty and a great person.
So I think you just need to find your style and look that accompanies your baldness.
nooo y would u say that? baldness is sexy if a man can work it and be confident about it:)
sure, hair is nice, but there's SO much more to a man. what about his eyes, smile, kindness, sense of humour... shall i go on?
u have a lot of hope, dont u worry:)
Hey, I'm a good looking girl with an awesome personality (just being confident, not cocky) and my boyfriend is in his mid 20's and has been balding since he was around your age. I can tell you 100% honestly that it bothers him a HELLLL of a lot more than it bothers me. I still think he's super handsome and sexy. Would I prefer he had a full head of hair? Sure. But it doesn't change how I feel about him romantically or sexually at all.
Girls that will have a problem with this aren't worth your time anyway.
The hell?
There are so many hot bald guys out there. The main thing is to make it look good. If it's half way gone, don't do a comb over, let it go with dignity and shave if off on time.
Besides, even if you are not balding you should consider...
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Had a friend who was definitely balding by that age. It also seemed like he could get a date easily. He did end up shaving his head and looked good that way but really the reason he could easily get a date is he was an interesting guy who could easily start a conversation and listen well enough to where people liked talking to him. It is probably why he also made guys friends easily as well because he's a nice outgoing guy.
Have you ever heard of rogaine? Go to your primary care physician in order to receive a scalp treatment to prevent from thinning hair. This may be caused due to a genetic condition, but I am sure there are routes that you can take in order for it to successfully grow back. Even with thicker hair, I am sure there is a confidence issue. Work on your confidence, overall, and from there hope will present itself :)
i started balding around 24. it wasn't very noticeable to people other than me til about 26. it was definitely difficult to deal with at first. Kind of a shock to the system that you realize the rest of your life is going to be a battle with your hairline.
certainly some women may not be into a balding man but plenty are. in fact I didn't feel like I had much trouble meeting women and just got married last year
I'm bald I'm doing alright. Just keep it shaved and hardly anyone knows I'm balding even though my hairline is actually somewhere on the very top of my head.
I've been thinking about laser hair removal just so I don't have to always shave so much but that's really my only complaint, sometimes I don't have time to set aside and shave my head
"Balding" suck. "Being Bald" does not.
The difference?
Those who are bald are confident with the look, and look neater by having the willingness to cut off what's left on the head.
However, those who are balding and did not make the decision to either go to Bosley (the guy who invented the treatment of re-growing hair) or to just "shave it off" just shows less confidence. Basically, you'd be known as the "guy-trying-to-save-what's-left-of-the-hair-he-used-to-have".
Lots of guys shave their heads on purpose in their twenties, and lots of guys lose their hair prematurely as well. It's no big deal! Lots of guys look great with little or no hair! Really. Don't sweat it. :)
Dude your fine. My friend is the same way his hair started to thin out really bad so he just shaves it completely bald. Has a girlfriend and everything. I got him a T-Shirt once that said this isn't a bald spot its a solar panel for a sex machine lol. Just be yourself and don't be so concerned about your bald head.
Absolutely not. In fact I had a MASSIVE crush on this guy in college and I saw him recently and he is also balding but I still think he's very, very cute.
Not doomed at all. Like you said, confidence is very attractive. If you don't want thin hair line and like a ring around the ears, you can always shave it all off. Travis Fimmel (from Vikings, shaved his head and had a beard, and he is pretty hot) Vin Diesel, Taye Diggs, and many others are bald and look very handsome. You can always try to accentuate one or more of your best features, or just own it! :)
God no.. I know many bald men who are very handsome! And many were young balding. A smooth top is hot on many guys!
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Some guys can totally rock the buzzed/ bald look haha, don't worry about it! Your features will remain the same and as long as you take care of yourself you'll be just as attractive.
If it really bothers you and causes you to feel self couscous shave your head. Take it from first hand experience, it works. ;~} Just remember when it comes to women you will never bat a 1,000 no matter what you look like.
When my man asked if I would still love him bald, I offered to help buzz off his hair so that he could shave his head. He's still the same man, with or without his hair. I love him, for him, not for his hair :-P
My ex was balding and he was 26. Can you answer mine?www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1401884-guys-who-hang-out-with-girls
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