Polls: Dating

Let's say you were there when your boyfriend or guy you had a crush on got into a fight. In front of everyone. He gets knocked out, and the other guy punches him some more while he's down and stands over him in a dominating fashion

Would you leave him? Would you be able to see him in the same way again? Would you lose sexual attraction to him?

Another interesting question: would you become more attracted to the guy who dominated your BF/guy you had a crush on?

I've been having this experience in dating that has been happening a lot and it's getting very frustrating, and I'm sure there are others here (both sexes) who have experienced it to.

You go out on a first date, maybe a blind date or an internet dating thing, everything goes good, you have a great conversation, and when you part you hug and say "Text me later!" or something like that. Then... the silence..., you text her, and nothing, you text again, and nothing, you email, and nothing, then you realized it's happened. She isn't interested in you.

I do have to say I see this happening way too much lately and it is simply disrespectful and cowardly, if you're not interested in someone after the first date, then JUST TELL THEM, why do they always just ignore you hoping that you'll get the message? And also, if you're just not feeling it on the date, why not just say so, be honest, and part ways, that's the honorable thing to do, rather than lying through your teeth and body language, giving the date the feeling that you're interested. This is just cruel, it gets a guy's hopes up, then crushes them.

I think it may be this post-1985 born generation of people growing up with stuff like the internet that lets you avoid face to face confrontation so much that you never learn how to face it. I see it a lot in girls, though, it may happen with guys too, I don't date them so I don't know, if that's the case girls, tell us here. It's true, we all don't like confrontation, especially face-to-face, but something like a text message isn't even confrontation, all you have to do is text them "Thanks for the date, but I'm not interested, sorry." Seriously girls, it's not going to hurt they guy's feelings, it's not, back me up here guys, and also tell me of your experiences with this phenomenon.

I want to know WHY you do this, and don't lie saying you've never done it, nobody's perfect, if you've done it, just say so and tell us what's going on in your head so we can understand you better, and maybe not be so hurt when you flat out ignore us after the first date. I'll put a poll up here to see how many have done it, and please be honest.

-Tell me if you have ever ignored a person after the first date instead of telling them you're not interested, and tell me why you ignored instead of telling them

-Tell me if you, as a guy or a girl, have ever had first dates where all seemed to go well but they ignored you after the first date, and how that made you feel.

Honesty, Honor, Respect, Courage, and Dignity, these are not goofy boy scout things to joke about with your friends, these are true virtues that define you as a person.

Do you like to receive 'good morning' texts?

I personally don't like them, they are annoying. when you know a lot of girls and some of them send it. It's not my thing to text back 5 or 6 girls 'morning' when I wake up. So, I ignore them and text them later in the day 'hey, what's up?'.

I want to know if a lot of people feel this way, please share :)

Nd how do you feel when you don't get a response?(for the people that enjoys sending them)

first off we're both 18. Anyway this girl says I waited too long for her and now she's chasing another guy(which is all my dumb fault)

So is there anything I can do? Should I try and flirt with her when I see her? or leave her be and see what happens with her and this guy?

say there's 2 guys that like you, you could date either one, they're both great and all, personality wise, they have good looking faces too, but there's a diff in height and body build.

would you take the tallest one, or the one with the best body build?

which is most important to you?

AND ONLY CHOOSE FROM THESE 2!

don't give me none of that, o I want a tall guy with a great body, no, that's not what the Q is about, if you answer like that, I will seriously block your ass.

Let's say vampires were real, you met a vampire that didn't want to turn you, nor wanted to feed on your blood or kill you. Instead he/she fell in love with you. The vampire lives in a huge estate, and is somewhat financially well off because he/she got some sort of vampire inheritance or something I don't know. The vampire is also highly attractive. Would you want to date the vampire or be in a relationship with one?

I just watched the movie Let Me In, a different kind of vampire flick in which a young boy and a young female vampire really hit it off, he has to make a decision, either turn against her and let her die, or take care of her..

Just wanna know what you girls think about it. Just check out my profile to see what I look like lol. I think I could get a kiss if I want haha. Its just I don't know if I'm waiting for the right girl.

Which one best describes what you think about my situation.