Boyfriend sleeps in the same bed with his sister, is it acceptable?

[Anonymous]

Yesterday my bf told me he was sleeping besides his sister so he couldn't stay up too late. Then I asked him whether he was in a different bed, but he said : in the same bed.

I felt really upset about that but he didn't seem to be bothered about it. Am I just overly reacting?

Acceptable

Not acceptable

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+1 y

His sister is ten. They were just at home and his sister didn't want to sleep by herself so she went to his bed..

[kittykatg]

When we were little my mom would make my little brother and I share a bed when we were at hotels just so that she didn't have to get a separate room. It's not that weird and we were actually really annoyed by it but sleep won us over.
She was probably just scared and sleeping on a bed is better than sleeping on the floor. I wouldn't be that concerned.

[Frost_Bite]

Like that other guy said it would take a mentally corrupted mind to think about anything going on with him and his 10 year old sister If his gf thinks its unaceptable i think he should adress her of the serius lack of trust in this relationship and pls don't mind the spelling errors

[EyeSeaYew]

It's just his sister. Unless some freaky incest crap is going on in their home you have zero to worry about. Sometimes one of my friend's older brothers will watch a movie with her and fall asleep in her bed. Nothing perverted going on there, they're SIBLINGS.

[EyeSeaYew]

Then there's the fact that your boyfriend's sister is 10. Dude. Don't get suspicious of a 10 year old ಠ_ಠ

[Mesonfielde]

How the ffff does anyone even end up being suspicious of a 10 year old

[EyeSeaYew]

@Mesonfielde Don't even know. The boyfriend would have to be an incestuous pedophile for there to be anything strange about the situation.

[meatballs21]

I think it's really nice that his little sister feels secure and protected when she's with her big brother.

I'm struggling to find words to describe someone who jumps to the conclusion that her boyfriend is an incestuous pedophile because of the above.

[Mesonfielde]

Psychopathic? Delusional? Paranoid?

[Mesonfielde]

It takes one crazy jealous lady to believe something indecent and sexual about sleeping next to your ten year old sibling. Don't tell him that you were doubting him because I would think you are a psycho. Voted A).

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Honestly, just found out since she updated that his sister is 10

[KianaCuppycakes]

I can tell my brother did not prefer it but when I was sad or something bad happened I really needed to crawl into bed with him, especially when my dad was busy working to feed us. Those were the sweetest moments ever. He would do anything for me I don't know where I would be without him.

I passed it on by being a shoulder to lean for my best friend when her cat passed away. Good siblings are a blessing.

[Anonymous]

Unless you actually believe your boyfriend is a pedophile, (in which case why the fuck are you dating him you freak) then what the hell could you possibly be concerned about?

[Mesonfielde]

Yeah. Wtf.

[truthbeknown]

If it happens all the time, or is regular nightly thing, yes that is very inappropriate.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

you need comfront him why he is allowing such behavior to go on that's his own sister

[Mesonfielde]

His sister is 10. At that time kids can even be afraid of the dark and stuff. Nothing sexual here, lol.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Well, kids get scared at night at age 10

[Anonymous]

If they're vacationing and in a hotel and that's basically the only option available, then that's fine.

Otherwise, fucking weird.

[Mesonfielde]

Did you read the update on how his sister is 10?

[Anonymous]

I've shared a bed with my brother, I don't see how that's any different. Two siblings sharing a bed is better than one sleeping on the floor...

[ThreeIn]

Dude who cares. Its just sleep, its not like they're cuddling naked.

[jakeofalltrades]

What, was your first thought that they were sleeping together or something, that kind of weird that is your first conclusion

[itsme_goodsamaritan]

10 yo kid sister is fine, but still avoidable.

[SomethingWicked]

How old is his sister?

[Mesonfielde]

Apparently she is 10.

[SomethingWicked]

Ah, well she was probably having nightmares, or hearing noises and was scared, I wouldn't think to much about it.

[Insaan]

You are psycho.

[Mesonfielde]

I am glad I am not the only one to make that claim.

[BertMacklinFBI]

d00d how old is he?

[bizzz]

Its his sister...