Polls: Dating

Ok. It's weird but social media shows it to be normal and to be fair not all girls are the same

And I don't know if this is a weird thing girls like.

I am talking about on average here I understand there is exceptions to the rule. But men and women are tricky as well as easy to catch in their own ways.

Men are much more impulsive cheaters on average. Not that women can’t have someone approach them at the right place right time but men are more likely to sleep with a woman he doesn’t even know…. So you may never know that it even happened. However they aren’t very planned out. They don’t really cover their tracks well and if they start talking to someone or something it becomes easier to spot.

Women on the second hand are usually much more planned out. They know who they want to cheat with as well as have a plan to cover their tracks before they act on it. What’s the catch? Women typically are sleeping with someone she or the both of you already know. After so long it becomes more obvious something is going on despite the gaslighting attempts.

The chances are higher that someone will rat her out, that you’ll notice she’s too close to someone, roomers, etc. Especially using their friends to cover it up sometimes one will start feeling bad and confess it. Or even seduce him and tell him.

So both are easy as well as hard to spot. Men are more messy. They don’t plan it out well and don’t cover their tracks well. As where with women they do BUT…. At the same time are doing it with someone close. At some point it becomes obvious if someone doesn’t say something

And yes its the bad #2.

If this ever comes up for any of you in real life im sure you'll thank me for having you work out what you might do jic lol.

Seeking advice. Gonna try to keep this short, but basically I'm asking you ladies to review my circumstances below and my current age and see if I'm screwed on dating or not. Also I'm an introvert so any pointers to help with that is welcome as well.

I've only been in 2 relationships my whole life. First was my 11th grade year. 2nd was while I was in the military. Have not dated since 2014 and still have NEVER had sex.

I left the military in 2015 at age 22. 2015-2018 was just simply me being to myself to heal. 2018-2024, a LOT of things went wrong for me. In that time frame, I was homeless (the entire time), went through bankruptcy, then worked Corrections, lost those jobs and had to heal from new trauma there. Had ZERO support.

October 2024 I get the job I currently have. November 2024 I get an apartment. I'm happy at my job. The job combined with my VA Disability check ensures all my bills are paid and a small bit left over. Got a roof over my head. Still fixing my credit and paying a few debts off, but I feel stable for the first time in my life.

Now, the only thing that feels missing is a good woman at my side. But, I've been in survival mode so long that I'm not sure where to begin.

we met at a conference and she is the cofounder of this new, but getting pretty significant media outlet. we had a couple conversations, but basically her outlet and my client are going to collaborate on some stuff.

I had someone drop out of an unrefundable Harry Potter Studios tour and dinner. I really did not think she would accept, but she seemed quite interested in it and now we have plans for tomorrow. But I mean clearly this is like a date activity I’m asking her out on. So I guess that means she might have some interest in me? She was not the first person I asked just based on the fact that it’ll be complicated a bit since we’re also going to collaborate on some stuff professionally.

Wouldn’t women think this isn’t something a guy asks you to do if he’s not interested in you?

also, I’m American and she’s British and I’m leaving in a few days….

It is my impression we are. Maybe it's around the same but I just don't really see it.