Why does my boyfriend act nicer to me when he is trying to get laid?

[XxBella08]

Does anybody have this same problem?

If so, how can you tell if he’s being genuine or not?

[ohsheeT]

This is how fucked up some guys are. They will kiss your a** They will do anything. They will promise you anything to get laid.

But right before then there will be in total jerks

And you give it and say yes have sex

They last two minutes get off... And then start treating you like crap all over again. I have watched it over and over when I had a room mate

[SteveSmith1985]

That's a problem.

That's a problem because he isn't as nice... when he isn't trying to get laid.

It's also a problem because he's essentially putting on an act for you to try and get laid. That's a little manipulative wouldn't you say?

No, he is not being genuine. You can know that because he is acting that way to achieve a goal. Not for its own sake.

[PeachyPie93]

I think all guys are like that, they get along with you well and treat you nice and as soon as you sleep together he starts acting like a dick for 3 days. That is just how some guys are..

[EmmaMary]

For fuck's sake try Growing Up and start acting your age.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Avicenna]

well, now that is obvious...

[Anonymous]

Probably because pulling out his 🍆 and just saying to you, "hey, it's not going suck itself". Probably doesn't work very well.😆

It's right up there with the women ask, "why don't guys just be honest if they just want sex". "Why pretend to just like her". Probably because in the history of man that has NEVER worked. duh!😆

[Shiprex]

He wants to get laid and that feels nice. Perhaps you're not giving the come to bed and get intimate vibes as often as he would like that he has to act differently to make it clear he's interested

[Nikki1989]

Are you really 44?

[spartan55]

For the same reason you act all nice when you want something.

[Anonymous]

You're 44 and you're asking something a teenager could catch on to.

[RedInnocent69]

Well, that’s kind of self-explanatory. Although, he should be nice to you all the time for the same reason

[Elisew123]

So you like sleeping with him?

[Anonymous]

He just wants sex. He’s not being genuine.

[jahaims]

He wants to get laid. How are you that stupid?