Why does my boyfriend get annoyed when I ask for affection?

[Anonymous]

Whenever I ask for cuddles in bed he always seems to get annoyed and does it only because I want to, but it gets to me massively. He seems to get annoyed with me with anything I say/do. I am quite out there and very out going, yesterday he told me to shut up, so I kept quiet and he just laughed at me. I was meant to stay round his last night but ended up going home because I was getting upset, and he wanted me to stay to talk but I couldn't. He always says I sulk whenever I don't get my own way, but I'm just upset that he doesn't wanna show me affection. I'm insecure as it is, and having a boyfriend that doesn't show affection in public, and gets annoyed when I ask for a kiss.. it just makes me wonder if he actually finds me attractive ext. I just don't know what to do anymore.. got a week holiday in 3 weeks, and I'm just wondering whether to just stick it out and see how it goes, basically make or break.
I just need some advice if anyone else has experienced this, what do you think I should do? I'm going to meet him after work to talk about it.

[Rok4bakAR]

Because generally women are annoying as hell!! Women use female psychology trying to understand men. In a girls world she doesn’t mean what you say so she thinks when a guy says no leave me alone it’s language of a woman but our no means no. And you annoying him. Because you don’t care what he doesn’t like. You see what you want and you push and push and push! Is a dangerous game women play. If a guy doesn’t have a lot of control he’ll smack you in the mouth. To stop you from pissing him off. You goanna make him hate you. That’s why me and most men avoid relationships. As women are fkin annnnoying!!

[Asker]

But thats the thing, he doesn't say no.. he just moans and groans about it, so in the end I just move away, then he complains about going into a mood, but really I'm trying not to annoy him, so I just keep quiet!

[Rok4bakAR]

Because if he says no he hast to deal with your horseshit. So he tries to give you clues so you don’t get upset and nag him to death.

[Asker]

Oh dear.. okay.

[kkirk4442]

If you need affection well above what he is willing or able to give, then you are not in a well matched relationship, and are likely to continue to be frustrated and angry.

[MindYourEyes]

Was he always affectionate before this started happening? Or when did you start noticing these changes?
Voice your concerns and let him know how you feel. You don’t feel wanted by him anymore. Don’t suffer in silence >.<

[Asker]

Before he would want cuddles ext! He's always told me to be straight forward with him about what I want for example; cuddles.. yet when I ask it always seems like a big deal!
Yeah I dunno anymore

[MindYourEyes]

To me I would take that as someone losing interest.