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Cuz wouldn't it be just be making it too easy to date someone your own age... APPROACHING Cougars It's harder I'd say actually. She might not know your age if you're a mature guy but you will and it will psyche you out. You'll sense the world is judging you. You'll be juding yourself. Just how...

If we had to run one quick sentence that encapsulated what the American ideal for attraction would be it's an obvious one, yet the question then becomes why it's so uncommonly achieved. The perfect combination for anyone is LOOKS (subjective) + CONFIDENCE (objective). We do love people who are...

Fashion is important to women, but it seems that it’s more important to them that they dress well than it is that they’re man dresses well. Yet, fashion does show competence and it sets you apart from the majority of most men. The ideal for a man who enjoys looking fashionable, but doesn’t have...

I see the majority of dating advice or explanations on why some people are more successful than others when it comes to dating as having to do with confidence. I agree for the most part that this is true. I also believe it's good to have because it allows you to enjoy your life more. But, for...

Just a few thoughts on all the How Do I look Threads: PRO: You get a more realistic view of how "society" ranks you. The thing with trolls and just unhappy people who aren't neccessarily looking to troll but for whatever reason rather unleash their inner jerk on the internet occasionally is...

This is a purely frustrated Take. It's always those with power who are scrutinized the most and in the spirit of that I think more crticisim should be made for the "social justice warriors" who go around judgmentally pointing fingers and accusing people of racism, sexism, homophobia, agism,...

Ah, popularity...I think it's a topic that can be made relevant to the site by the sheer volume of teenagers who use it. Obviously, they aren't as vocal and mostly just ask questions about why someone doesn't like them, but I like addressing teens...it's a time of hope where they think anything...

The title is intentionally misleading. It doesn't suck to be famous, but it isn't all fun and games and, for some, it's downright hell. Here's a take on why being famous might not be what you really want. Fame is...ISOLATION Yes, fame-- whether it's been on a billboard or everyone in your high...

Ah, men from all levels of attractiveness, personalities, and professions know it well. Every so often that perfect girl falls into your lap...things go well and then they don't. Before you know it, she's talking down to you and you're taking it like a wimp. You're aware of it, but she's just so...

The world is a heartbreaking place... I'm sure many of you have heard that in Harper Lee's new novel being released tomorrow that Atticus Finch, hero of the book we were all forced to read, To Kill A Mockingbird, where he brilliantly defended a black man, is now going to be portrayed as a...

This is a question that has been bothering me a bit because I don't feel like internet dating is taken seriously enough to be actually compared (by internet dating I include webcaming someone from a different country in order to date to exchanging messages and meeting people in real life...

As I'm sure the majority of you know James Horner died in a plane crash recently. To honor him, I'm going to declare a bold statement: "Titanic" (Music From the Motion Picture) is the greatest film score ever made. "Titanic" perfectly captures the era, the themes, the ethos and the larger than...

As I have started to write a few myTakes aimed at men and what I think we can do to improve our sense of confidence and navigate the dating terrain, I thought I'd try my hand at offering a little insight into what I think I and many men find sexy and attractive to women. I'd like to note that...

I am a little bit soap-curious. Ok, a lot. It started with Boy Meets World and became a guilty obsession after that. Here are six things that I think men can learn from these shows made basically as a fantasy for women. I also think examples are very helpful when illustrating a point rather than...

This is an argument in defense against those who want to say that beauty means nothing, that having looks hold no value, and that anyone who ascribes value to it is superficial and/or hornier for sex than emotional connection. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, very true. Everyone has a...

The first thing that came to my mind when I heard about the Apple Music announcement is "doesn't matter...they won't get Taylor Swift's music and that's the only thing that's going to give them a big enough edge on Spotify given that she's the highest selling artist by far who refuses to put her...

As per usual, this take of mine is directed towards males. The short version is that lyrics in music, which you presumably listen to all the time, has a strong affect on your mind and, relating it to GaG, it's either making you soft or hard in relation to the opposite sex. Let's first break it...

So, I always write for an audience of men only and I tend to ask questions from a male perspective only and I tend to give opinions to men more than women, so I thought I'd write a Take on some of the women in movies and literature who define my personal perception of what I think about when I...

This probably applies to everything, but since getting with tons of hot girls are what's most important/out of guys reach for a young male, I thought I'd make this specific to this. What I'm telling you will probably revolutionize and get you so much further along the path to getting better...

Being on a forum like this, I'm sure the majority of us have heard the cliched advice, "If you think you're going to fail...it becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy..." Then they tell you to adopt a more positive outlook on life and that will somehow bring positive things into your life... This is...