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Women can say whatever they want. And they can also demand that men should focus and have control. And that it would be ridiculous for a man later in the future to blame a girl in a short for his failure at education. I agree with all of that. But don't any woman tell me that the purpose of a very tight, and revealing short jeans is nothing but attracting attentions. And it's not the only option to cool down during summer.
Many do it for attention, I personally don't wear tight bottoms but I do wear tight dresses because they're the only ones that look good on me. It's not always just the "I want guys to look at me", just saying.
Yes. School is for education. Uniforms is the best idea. Express yourself outside of school. A major reason our culture is so shallow and getting more stupid by the minute.
This is why I think outfits like that SHOULD be banned.
We face a problem in society where there is toxic masculinity, there is pedophilia, and there is a rape culture, which shouldn't exist, BUT it does.
If we enable our kids to sexualize themselves at a younger age, what are we doing to protect them from these problems? What are we doing to prevent our 16 year old kids from being targeted by older men when we drop them off at the mall?
I'm from Akron Ohio, and Ohio is the capitol of human trafficking in the US. I'm not proud of this in our society but it's real.
Every generation of kids just looks older and older and older. They're enabled to use makeup in middle school, and parents let them dress "grown" (for lack of a better word) for no reason.
Women get offended as is when you approach them talking about "how old are you", so most men don't really ask, they just flirt with older women, because they for sure look older, so if she has a stroller and no baby daddy around, then guys tend to talk or flirt with her. Other men might not so much, if you offer to buy any girl anything so much as a drink or any free shit she says yes.
Okay, now as far as the human trafficking, parents don't pay attention to their kids, hell there was a situation last year where a man went to Kalahari which is a water park resort in Ohio, and in the middle of everybody put a bag over a kids head and attempted to kidnap him. The park officials banned him HOWEVER he was NOT arrested. He was NOT charged. And kids go missing every day, and you can't file a missing persons report until after 24 hours.
If your kid gets snatched and dressed up like that, people won't think much of it in public unless they are good at nonverbal cues.
To prevent this, we should ban everywhere the overaged dressing of our kids. We should ban everywhere the oversexualization culture that is within our kids. When did parents decide it was okay for their 13 14 year old kids to act like Cardi B? We live in a society where beauty has become identified by sexualization and NOT comfortability, and not only is this destructive, but this is morally and completely wrong, and this needs to stop somewhere.
There's teachers out there that want to teach more than math to your son's and daughters, remember that.
Everybody should be honest here, there are some different issues here:
- Hypocrisy to differentiate between boys decency and girls decency. It should be possible to show bare arms and shoulders, both on boys and on girls, it should even be fine to see bra straps on girls shoulders and _see_ that they have boobs, that's mother nature. Even some sort of decent cleavage should be deemed normal. Boys should act like sane creatures, and I can imagine that a group of girls could sort of be distracted too about some beautiful shaped six-pacs on boys.
- What _does_ happen is a sort of 'race' between different people, both on the boys side and on the girls side, there _is_ competition, there are people that want to pull the attention towards them, and they do that often with clothing. If you're a C-Cup girl and go in a tight t-shirt without bra to school that shows your abs and under-boob you're not doing if for comfort or temperature control, you're doing it to be more sexy than some other girls that don't do it. Don't sell it as hypocrisy between boys and girls attire.
You're at school, at school you should be decently dressed, that's not the same attire as when you're going to a party. Real life afterwards is the same, go compete with your other gender members when you're hunting, not whilst you're at school or at work.
There are all girl schools with strict dress codes so it's not just about the possibility of what a random guy thinks. Dress codes are also about respecting the point of where you are. You wouldn't wear ripped short jeans to somebody's wedding or a job so why should it be acceptable at school? The main point of school is to get an education not to be on parade in class.
Boys & girls should have dress codes that respect the importance of getting an education. REGARDLESS Of whether the boys have self-control or not.
I would not ban a specific form of dress though I do advocate making everyone wear the same thing. After the first couple of days it's not even distracting if everyone is naked. But if only one person is wearing those shorts and everyone else is naked than the person wearing the shorts is a distraction. If everyone is wearing those shorts then there is not distraction. A school dress code isn't designed to prevent you from dressing sexy. If it was then school girl uniforms would be banned. A school dress code is designed to ensure everyone is dressed the same way.
Men have always found skinny women sexually desirable because biologically it indicates good health and the ability to reproduce and that's why these types of women are featured so heavily in the media it's because men have already found that attractive. When a woman sees a man dressed in the same way it's creepy and disturbing to her because biologically she isn't looking for the same thing a male is. WOMEN FAIL TO REALIZE THIS BECAUSE THEY'RE NOT MALE SIMPLY PUT. TO THEM IT'S HARMLESS BECAUSE THEY'RE NOT SEXUAL, VISUAL CREATURES LIKE MEN! Men are always ready to mate biologically whereas women only once a month. I hope all you women reading this learned from this.
So because guys can't behave themselves, girls have to limit what they can wear?
That being said, I probably would want these in school anyway not because it is a distraction to guys, but iunno maybe I'm just getting old. Im not saying knee length skirts, just.. maybe no ass cheek.
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We can behave ourselves but it’s hard not to look.
Something to consider for which I don't have an answer... Sometimes my daughters (14 and 16) cry or get angry for no reason. I know because I talk to them. They snap at their mother and little brother over trivial things. Why? Hormones. Teenagers are flooded with them as they transition from childhood to adulthood. So, while all girls and women should be treated with respect and be able to choose what wear, I wouldn't be too quick to judge boys who are distracted by pretty or sexy girls. Why? Hormones. When I was a boy people dressed more modestly, but that didn't stop me from daydreaming about kissing Susan in math class. Dress codes definitely unfairly focus on girls, but sometimes unfair things are necessary. You couldn't wear booty shorts to an office job either. Just musings on the other side of the argument, not a plea to control female sexuality.
So we cry and boys get to sexualize us? Fair exchange 🤔
I really love @ChrisMaster69 post about this. Now im not saying all men are rapists. That part is extreme but we shouldn't need to modify clothing because men can't control their libido
@ez-bri-z. Uniforms are the answer when parents fail to teach their daughters any common sense with regards to dress. And yes, this is the girls problem and yes, they should not dress In a way that distracts boys AND other girls.
I just said not booty shorts and why can't guys not be derogatory if a girl wants to wear a pair of shorts the go mid thigh or have a low cut top? Guys can't control their libido so punish the girls? Parents need to stop letting their boys treat women like sex objects and more with respect.
They should be banned, but not because of them distracting boys. Boys and girls both are capable of focusing on schoolwork if they are disciplined enough. The reason I believe they should be banned is because school is supposed to teach students how to be productive citizens in society, which includes how to properly dress. School is not a casual session or a club. There is a certain level of respect that should be demanded while at school and allowing people to dress like they are at a club tells them the institution does not command respect. Why do you think most businesses have a dress code for their employees? It is a respect thing.
Bullshit. Just because you cannot control your desires doesn’t mean that she cannot wear shorts. Wtf. Get better at not looking at her and start concentrating in class
I usually cover everything up because I’m highly insecure about my body and my parents are really strict. I’m pretty sure I’m not allowed to wear shorts. I’m not even allowed to wear a sleeveless, but if I do wear it, I have to wear a t-shirt under it. And what do you mean they enjoy being seen as a slut? So according to you, when a woman wears shorts she’s a slut?
Guys get to sexualize us just because we wear shorts? C’mon, it’s summer, of course most girls are gonna wear shorts! They ain’t gonna wear winter clothes
Yep, just read it and you’re absolutely right! I’m not calling all men rapists, but it’s hot out and girls aren’t gonna wear jeans! Like bruh, shorts are super common. Guys just need to learn how to not sexualize women for every damn thing and not call us “sluts” for silly things. We’re not sluts, you are just thinking like a fuckboy who has no control over his libido.
women these days think being slut is liberating and sticking it to the man or (men) by sitting on every dick they see which just ruins them physically and emotionally.
in reality being a slutty feminist makes it easier for the guy to pump and dump and move on. playing hard to get and dressing appropriately WITH NORMAL SHORTS makes you way more desirable to GOOD MEN.
the shorts in the thumbnail say "see my ass cheek? you want it? come get it" which gives the man the wrong idea about you and leads them on which will most likely end in unwanted sex from the lady. clothing says a lot about someone
Banned, yes. Because it distracts guys? No, that's bullshit. If that's how we're going to think then make all the girls wear burqas. Everyone should wear appropriate clothing just as adults wear appropriate clothing. Set a standard for professionalism. It's not the beach, c'mon.
Agree... when I was in school, it never crossed my mind that dress code was about protecting 'helpless' boys from girls. Uniforms or at least strict dress codes are the classy way to go.
Yes, but mainly to protect the students who would want to wear them. The outfit really wouldn't even be that bad if it didn't have the holes in the back. Honestly they should just decide on a school uniform that is basically the same for everyone. Like, maybe have a design for spring/summer then a warmer one for fall/winter. Then people can still wear whatever they want at home and stuff.
They should be banned but not because it's distracting for males but just inappropriate in school, especially for a young girl. At least in my opinion.
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Anonymous
(18-24)
1 y
No, because if it's hot outside of course girls are gonna wear shorts. So just because a guy sees a girls knees or legs he's instantly gonna get distracted yea okay whoever made that rule is dumb. If guys can wear shorts then girls can too.
I don't think he suggested banning shorts, just shorts like that. How short should the shorts be allowed to be? What constitutes showing too much ass? I'm not saying you're wrong I just want to think it through. I think his reasoning is a little sexist, but the question raises another question. Is school an appropriate place to dress like that?
I'm going to say super short shorts should not be in school, on the other hand what teenage boy won't be distracted by girls in uniform skirts too. Teen boys are walking hormones to begin with so really what outfit won't be distracting.
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Anonymous
(25-29)
1 y
Everyone ought to wear uniforms. I mean that is the best option for school when kids from all sorts of background are studying together.
I saw people protesting over this. I don't care girls wearing this at home, at a party, in the park or at the beach. But personally I think a school needs to have a dress code. You send your kids to school to study not to exhibit sexiness.
Would you want to be told what you can wear and what you can? If you want women to cover up go live in an islamic country or you could just have some self control 🤦🏻♂️
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