Does 'O sen olsan bari :mean "(i wish) it were you" / or "if it were you, at least"? How to distinguish between a statement and a wish?

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Does "o sen olsan bari" mean "if it were you, at least " OR does it mean "I wish it were you" ? ... Or both 🤔

Also, IF it's the second or third meaning then how the hell do you distinguish between a statement and a wish? And what about """bari""" ?

Explain your response please because there seems to be differing views.
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Does 'O sen olsan bari :mean "(i wish) it were you" / or "if it were you, at least"? How to distinguish between a statement and a wish?
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