Im tired of playing nice. I wanted to be nice and cordial. But too many idiots take advantage of that at work and start getting too comfortable with me. Does she think i want to be her friend or something? Goodness gracious!
Today she basically asked me to do a task she could easily do herself. Like why did I have to do it? It wasn't time sensitive. She could have done it in under a minute herself or put it to the side and done it herself. The only explanation i have is that she is too comfortable with me.
I really need to stop being nice to people and acting friendly to peoplle i dont know at work. Cause then I get stuck with their bullcrap.
I dont go around bossing anyone around so why do that to me? She may be some arrogant individual who thinks she knows best way to do anything... Even though I have been here two years and she only a few months. And yet I dont stand around whining about everything at work, annoying everyone within earshot.
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Be nice to her. Praise her, inside your mind. I'm serious. @zj9evtzndi Be very careful. Two wrongs don't make a right. There is no sound justification for wrongs. The effects will shower you regardless. A wrong is a wrong no matter the size and you may not know the effects; you may never know but I assure you they exist.
She has some overt character/personality flaws. This is a big moment for you to learn and grow. It is easy to play the victim and most people would but use this to become a better person. Be the change you want to see in the world. You can overcome this in 2 ways. The path is yours to choose. You can choose the easy way that leads to more wretchedness or you choose the way of growth that leads to something more.
The path is yours to choose. You wanna be someone who strives to better the world or one of those people who just live in it. The path is yours to choose. You can leave all the benefits, you're blind to, on the table and go back to your life or your can pick them up and had over to your new life. The choice is yours.
Be that 1 in a million. Light up the darkness. I know you can. The opportunities await you my friend.
I am interested in your theory but i need more explanation please