Is he single or in a relationship. If he is in a relation ship it might be a good idea to have a chat with the partner. If you have made it obvious with your body language and told him verbally and he still continues to do it. Start recording the conversations, keep a diary of everything that happens, give him a warning make it clear that his behaviour is unwanted, and affecting you and making you feel uncomfortable, give him a clear warning that if he doenst stop you take it up with a supervisor, if he still contiues give written notice to the supervisor, it he is not dealt with get a lawyer and go after the company and him. Don't put up with it. If you want to keep your job and avoid this guy maybe try transfering somewhere else, or quiting, if its that bad.
Most Helpful Opinions
The only thing I could think of short of telling the supervisor and getting his (_|_) fired, as you said you didn't want to do, is to possibly find something YOU could do to HIM that would make him just as uncomfortable as his actions make you. Although that itself might be uncomfortable for you as well depending on how you choose to do so. It's unfair that you have to deal with this behavior, is there anyway you could maybe threaten the higher ups with a possible sexual harrassment lawsuit against the man AND the company? They might start taking you more seriously and not giving you a hard time for sticking up for yourself at that point dear. >.<
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
3Opinion
Haha! I'd hate to get your "Look of Death"
Don't report the complaint to your supervisor; report him to HR. HR will not release your name, unless formal disciplinary action is warranted. He'll get a cease and desist notice ordering him to stop his bad behavior, but your name will not be mentioned.Contact the authorities; considering it's a crime ( and he may have a record ) you'll be better off contacting them than bothering with your supervisor who isn't doing anything anyway despite being obligated by law to do so. At worst: Restraining Order.
Next time he does it, tell him flat out you've warned him enough, and the next time it happens he's gonna get reported. He's a loser, so don't give it a second thought.
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!
Most Helpful Opinions