How do I stop living as a ghost?

[TonyRogers]

I consistently feel like a loving ghost.
Any girl i meet it never goes anywhere.
Either im too old, we have nothing actually in common, or i mess it up and i consistently try to get back in her good graces with no success.

Same with friends.. nothing.
And day jobs..
I'm trying to figure out a day job that pays decently and allows me time to pursue my career, but it never works out.
I dont know what to do

[77five]

Maybe try women your own age if being “too old” tends to be the problem

[Marianna546]

Maybe try changing your attitude?

[Anonymous]

What is your career?

[TonyRogers]

Actor

[Opinion Owner]

Than you should to L. A. or wherever auditions are done.