How to get over ghosting?

[Anonymous]

I'm feeling really hurt right now. I can't believe how someone I trusted and cared for could treat me like this. I've been trying to talk to this guy for days, but he's been ignoring me and ghosting me. It's so painful to think that he doesn't have the courage to tell me that he's not interested in me anymore. It's like he's just stringing me along and giving me false hope. And when I express my discomfort, he suddenly becomes apologetic, but then goes back to ignoring me again. I can see through his manipulation now, and it's so frustrating that he won't just be honest with me. I've been blaming myself for his behavior for days, thinking that I was too much or that I did something wrong. But now I see that it's not me, it's him. He's the one who's been playing games with me, saying things that he knows I want to hear and then disappearing. He told me that he's not like other guys, but he's worse. He's the most manipulative person I've ever met. I can't believe I allowed him to treat me like this. It's been a hard lesson to learn, but I'm glad that I've figured him out. I know now to avoid people like him in the future. I hope Karma catches up with him because he deserves to reap what he's sown. I just wish he had the courage to tell me the truth instead of playing these mind games. It's clear now that he's not a good person, no matter what he thinks of himself. I'm done with him, and I'm moving on. But thing is, I'm deeply hurt and I don't know what to do. I don't want text him or anything but this ghosting is so humiliating that it makes me angry and sad.

What should I do get over this ghosting?

[Paris13]

Online Ghosting is Popular these days. Consider the Reasons Behind the Compter Curtain and Move On and Let it Be a Valuable Lesson you have Learned about this Guy and Ghosting. xx

[Paris13]

Thanks to Gag. xxoo

[Burnttoast3344]

I’ve recently had someone do this to me and It sucks I thought of it night and day for a long time and after two months of her wanting me back and always apologizing saying she loves me I made the mistake of letting her back in my life and I’m still sitting here not knowing what to do and feeling confused and feeling like shit! She’d do the exact things to me your guy does and still does! I’m only telling you this to tell you actions speak louder than words and I know it’s painful and makes u angry but what I’m asking is to just be strong and that it’s better to let them go so you’re not stuck in a never ending emotional trap that I’m stuck in still! Try not to overthink please be strong and focus on you!

[Vcbay52]

I have the exact same situation with a guy right now. I also think about it too much and blame myself. I asked him out multiple times but he didn't answer, but he's been stringing me along, keeping me hopeful. I told him I have no more time to waste for indecisive people and that we either go out or he can go waste someone else's time. Now he smiles at me then goes after a new girl in front of me and laughs at me when I apologize. These people are immature, manipulative jerks and pieces of. If he valued you he wouldn't do it. Losing such people shouldn't make you upset but happy. Live your life, look beautiful, be successful and show him what he lost. The coward will regret it one day.

[On_cloud_wine]

You really need to learn to write in paragraphs. You’ll draw more attention to people and get more feedback.

[Wild_princess]

Invest yourself somewhere else... distract your mind and let him go