How to stop being a serious ghoster?

[KittygosMeoWW]

Lol so I lose interest pretty fast and I’ve noticed I’ve just made it a bad habit to ghost people. Is there a better way to handle it?

[Browneye57]

You simply announce to them that it's over. You do this by phone, or in person.
"It's over, I can't do this anymore."
"I'm done, it's over."

No blaming, no arguing, no finger pointing. Just announce and be done. This gives both parties closure and ends it.

Ghosting leaves them hanging, and if you piss off the wrong one it could be deleterious to your health. So just be a consider human being and tell them your intention.

You lose interest pretty fast because you choose poorly, and you have unreasonable expectations. Relationships and romance isn't ALL about YOU all the time. And it's about GIVING, not just what you get out of it. It's obvious you're quite immature, and probably just not really ready for serious dating. Taking up with you is like playing russian-roulette.

[KittygosMeoWW]

But it wasn’t anything to begin with

[Browneye57]

Sure it was, you're just a bit clueless - Superb Opinion. Either shut up and learn something, or GTFO. We're all good either way.

[ohshee]

I think you are just like everybody else you're looking for excitement and looking for something new something that touches you deep and when you don't get it you move on there's always somebody saying hi to you there's something new there's always a great adventure and that's who you are I understand that because I'm the same way and I don't mean to ghost anybody It's just sometimes I send my replies to a little bit too late because I'm not always online okay so here's a challenge for you hello how are you we'll see if you replied let's see who ghost first and for what reasons maybe this will help you maybe this will help me

[beebella]

If you lose interest that easily, then maybe you should just not date anybody for a while.

I'm one of the very few people who isn't totally against ghosting, so I have no advice on how to stop that. 😂

[CaptainRonnie]

Tell every guy up front you tend to ghost people once you lose interest. The male hubris will take over and he'll think "well, surely she won't ghost ME!" and will probably be even more into you. Then once you ghost him he'll know you lost interest and will appreciate you were up front with him at the start.

[KittygosMeoWW]

Lol sure

[ShadezMcgee]

Something tells me you are being disingenuous about making this a bad habit, especially with the "lol" to start. You know what you need to do, you just don't want to do it.

Be direct and upfront with everyone regardless if they are a guy interested in you or someone asking you something. That's the only way.

[humpbackjack]

I don’t see the big deal with ghosting I mean you don’t owe them anything really. Maybe if you’ve been dating or have had sex then I understand people getting upset but let’s say 1 maybe even 2 dates or just talking on the internet or phone as long as no promises or commitments were made then whatever. I mean how would the conversation go otherwise “ok so I’ve gotten bored with you so I’m gonna stop all communication. No hard feelings ok see ya

[boggboss]

Now that u know u do it hold yourself accountable if u feel like j want to end contact tell them or end things properly

[FilmGuy93]

Of course there's a better way to handle it; COMMUNICATION. All you have to do is verbalize your intentions.

[MrCommodore]

Just tell them "Not feeling it between us, sorry dude, now f$%k off". 😂

[dolemite89]

become a nun i guess 🤷‍♂️😝
or you could just act like a normal human being and cordially tell them ur not interested anymore

[KittygosMeoWW]

Lol eh

[chriscdi]

Friend zone them, it sucks for them but I better than ghosting I think, it might not

[jasco]

Honestly all you can do is find something interesting to talk about

[Bklynbadboy12]

It's nothing wrong with losing Interest but you should always communicate I don't think you should ghost anybody

[Anonymous]

uh yeah quit being a cunt

[KittygosMeoWW]

You had to go anon to say that?

[Opinion Owner]

yeah i did

[KittygosMeoWW]

That’s a pussy move

[Opinion Owner]

good glad you think so

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

Be a decent human?

[Anonymous]

Say goodbye.