Have you ever seen someone super sweet turn into something not so sweet?

[DizzyDesii]

I just got my ass handed to me 😂 Everyone kept saying that “A” is the best mentor and that she's so sweet. So when i met her like 2 weeks ago she seemed so angelic. She was so softspoken and all. Then she was assigned to be my supervisor. Today was our first meeting and Maaaan that hoe turned into a gremlin 😂 She was literally Ursula busting out of that Brunette on the Little Mermaid. She was going on about me spending too much time with the client. (Like well if y'all had trained us better, maybe I could speed up the process). I’ve never seen her like this but then again I let the first impression fool me. I hate the B word but I am working for some real B’s 😂. Its three of them who have lost their shit on us and of course they’re all the bosses favorite (probably because they’re her mini-me’s). At this point, I’m so prepared to get fired 🤣 I kinda just don’t care anymore. These students are meanasses anyways. And maybe if i quit, my monthly healthcare insurance premium will decrease #FeelFreeToList

[Titanic1912]

My previous ex girlfriend showed me. She started acting so sweet when we first met. Then we got serious and starting kissing and smooching. Valentine’s Day was the best date we ever had. Then her birthday came and she changed. We were in the middle of Hocus Pocus and then we paused it to go get lunch. I told her I didn’t want to finish it because I was sinning against God! She got upset at me and she typed me a Dear John letter a few days later. We’re no longer friends and we are never EVER getting back together.

[DizzyDesii]

Omg 😂😂😂 wait so i understand the whole Halloween celebration but you can't even watch hocus pocus?

[LovingLoverReturned]

Fake story I bet. 😂

[DizzyDesii]

@LovingLoverReturned no he's serious about religion so i believe it

[LovingLoverReturned]

Oh :o. Lol but "we are nevwr ever getting back togethwr" soyjds likeba Taylor swift line... thus adding to why i thoufh fake... I think she didn't expect that half way through the show and She is probably not religious.

[DizzyDesii]

@LovingLoverReturned he's a big Tswift fan on his posts lol

[Titanic1912]

@DizzyDesii, she also loves Taylor Swift. @LovingLoverReturned, she said she’s religious but she didn’t show it. We celebrated Halloween together and we went as Elvis Presley and Priscilla Presley. It wasn’t until March when she tried to show me Hocus Pocus. Then in April, I got the Dear John letter.

[SnowedIn]

Oh so totally yes. Two people at my work recently. They were lovely and sweet and peaches and cream and then they both went full on crazy. Wish I knew. Shrug. Luckily I saved all my communications with them. That cooled their jets really quick.

[DizzyDesii]

Thats good you did

[Ms_Facesitter]

I have and it was very satisfying. Best example is this. It's a quiet gentle soul, who was pushed a bit too much and snapped. Pure Justice, God's wrath came down on the man who messed with him.

I'm hesitant calling someone I just met sweet. I met a great guy last week but I'm going to take my time and wait it out and see if it's just a facade. I've seen it plenty of times. People who are nice until things don't get their way.

[DizzyDesii]

Someone said maybe she was just mad because she mightve got in trouble too. Oh well thats on her. She didn't supervise me until today lmao. She was supposed to start last week. And yea your example is the good kind

[DancingQueen16]

Yes my best friend from elementary school who'll I'll call M we were super close friends until the year we started 6th grade once middle school started she hardly ever talked to me in fact in the past almost seven years she's only spoken to me three times

[DizzyDesii]

Yea people change around 6th grade. Its sadly annoying

[jennifer_bloom]

Yeah I met a guy who was the nicest guy I ever met in my entire life but when he lost interest in me, he turned into an annoying and selfish liar.

[DizzyDesii]

Yep i almost forgot about those types

[dustybiker]

I hate to say it but this is why I dislike working with woman. It’s like a switch gets flipped. At least men who are jerks, it’s usually pretty clear, and they are consistently jerks.

[DizzyDesii]

I fully agree!! The one good thing about my first job was that it had eyecandy and less emotional females. My second job had rude women. The third was more so keeping to yourself. And this one is straight female dominated. I think we have 2 male coworkers if that (and they’re just the techs)

[Guy13]

All I see are two bitch tornadoes bouncing off one another and the walls... Loved to have been the fly in that room... gliding through the wind...

[LovingLoverReturned]

Maybe they taught her to be that way as a sup. :/

[DizzyDesii]

I just think they need to learn how to talk to people and then we’d be more willing to listen

[LovingLoverReturned]

You're right

[AdithyaR]

A friend of mine in college. It was heart breaking cause they were the kindest and sweetest I knew but struggled with depression and began withdrawing and keeping to themselves.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea those are the hardest

[Dnice1]

Yup one of my old co-workers, turned into a jerk and got me fired for something I didn't do some time back and was incredibly mean to me to the point of threatening me. Gotta say people can be real cruel.

[DizzyDesii]

Thats so messed up

[Dnice1]

Totally.

[kellytheman]

Yeah I have had girlfriends that was so nice and sweet during the first months of going out and having sex then as the relationship is kinda not fun anymore she is not so nice anymore.

[DizzyDesii]

She changed after she got the dick lmao

[kellytheman]

Yeah your probably right it did seem they change after having sex lmaoy

[DizzyDesii]

I get attached after sex. Probably why i hold out on doing it 😂 I try to avoid clinging

[AimeeKyle]

I think you are experiencing jealousy or envy from the alleged mentor. Or they just aren’t willing to share success which makes them an individual that cannot mentor.

[DizzyDesii]

They hardly trained us and wonder why we’re so confused

[AimeeKyle]

Poor onboarding / training never works out well. Unless you are in the banking industry or some highly regulated industry, I think that is the norm though.

[LiamJHayden]

Yes, as soon as she did not get her way. There are fake "nice girls" just like there are fake "nice guys."

[DizzyDesii]

I fully agree.

[ArtemisSilver]

Sounds like she's just having some kind of issues and taking them out on those around her.

[DizzyDesii]

I think the boss fussed at her about me. But its her fault for just now acting as a supervisor. I didn't hear from her for like 2 weeks

[FinalFantasyBro]

I haven't really experience that yet and I sure hope that day never comes.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea hope for the best but prepare for the worst

[FinalFantasyBro]

Yes I unfortunately always will be prepared.

[ZenJen444]

How long are you expected to be with a client? Was that in your contract that's you're being timed?

[DizzyDesii]

The guy who hired us lied. He gave us a completely different description from the actual job. They was us with people for 5-10 min. I do 10-30 min depending on how rude the people are when we’re asking them questions to qualify them. A lot of them stall and won't answer simple questions and that causes my stuff to be longer

[Wiredone]

Yeah. Me. I can be really nice but if pushed to the limit I explode

[DizzyDesii]

Same but i did nothing to this hoe 😂 She wasn't doing her job and then is surprised the boss is fussing at her

[DizzyDesii]

which leads her to fuss at me

[Wiredone]

She has to blame someone. You're the newest one there so she let you have it. It's like that at every job. Shit rolls down hill.

[DizzyDesii]

My whole class is new but we each have a diff person supervising us. One girl got yelled at for not being robotic with the students. She showed her nice goofy personality but kept it very charismatic and professional. They told her not to show personality 🤣

[Wiredone]

That's b. s.

[Abdulwahh]

Is the a situation where you working years there and a student with a degree or certificate is put higher than you?

[DizzyDesii]

What? I just started this job

[Abdulwahh]

Oh my bad lol. There's never a perfect place tho.

[NathanDavis]

my cat... my dog, lol

[DizzyDesii]

Yikes

[NathanDavis]

my Luna cat is the sweetest and most chill thing, lol...

but sometimes, those stray male cats that wander into the backyard and that are three times the size of her, she's very protective, especially when kittens around, she'll chase them away for a full block, lol

[DizzyDesii]

Dang thats a strong mom

[NathanDavis]

that's how they roll, cats... lol

but I rather catch her before she takes off

[Finchie40]

Oh yes my Ex. Dr Jekyll Mr Hyde shit lol

[DizzyDesii]

Scaaaary

[RavVid]

That's every girlfriend I have had!

[DizzyDesii]

Well damn

[RavVid]

Dizzy, once gfs know you are committed it all tends to change...

[DizzyDesii]

You’re prob right. A lot of people change when they feel they’re “safe”

[RavVid]

Yeah and you can keep up super sweet for maybe 6 months max but it becomes hard work to be something you aren't.

[DizzyDesii]

I noticed that about a loooot of people. They can't stay pretending past 3-6 months

[RavVid]

Yeah the warts start showing about then.

[Pink2000]

No I have not.

[DizzyDesii]

Damn so everyone just sticks to the first impression they gave off?

[Pink2000]

Pretty much

[MysticDevice]

My last girlfriend in highschool lol.

[DizzyDesii]

What made her snap

[MysticDevice]

It wasn't a snap. It was gradual. So it took me a while to see it

[DizzyDesii]

Thats what a snap is to me lol

[MysticDevice]

Ah ok. I don't know what made her snap. Maybe she wasn't sweet to begin with and I just didn't see it

[Phoenix98]

Something like that.