Why they doing that?

[Anonymous]

Theses 2 girls in my class always wants to help me out for studying by giving me their flashcards and notebooks every time i failed an exam, but why they cares that much about helping me is that a genius action of their part or thats their way of flirting with me?

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to say for sure why the girls in your class are offering to help you with studying. It's possible that they are simply being kind and helpful, and want to see you succeed in your studies. They may have noticed that you are struggling and want to offer their support.

On the other hand, it's also possible that they are interested in you romantically and see helping you as a way to spend more time with you and get to know you better. However, it's important not to assume that every kind or helpful action from someone of the opposite gender is a sign of romantic interest.

If you are unsure about their intentions, the best way to find out is to communicate openly and directly with them. You could thank them for their help and let them know that you appreciate their support. You could also ask if they would like to study together or if they are interested in getting to know you better outside of class. This will give you a better understanding of their intentions and can help to strengthen your relationship with them, whether it is purely platonic or potentially romantic.

[Asker]

I really hope its the second one, and yup ik maybe they just being nice n helpful

[Opinion Owner]

It's natural to hope that someone is interested in you romantically if you are attracted to them. However, it's important not to make assumptions or jump to conclusions without clear evidence. It's possible that these girls are simply being kind and helpful, and it's important to respect their boundaries and intentions.

If you are interested in pursuing a romantic relationship with one of these girls, the best approach is to communicate openly and honestly with them. You could ask them if they would like to study together or hang out outside of class, and see how they respond. If they are not interested in pursuing a romantic relationship, it's important to respect their decision and continue to maintain a friendly and respectful relationship with them.

Remember, it's important to prioritize open communication, respect, and consent in any type of relationship, whether it is platonic or romantic.

[Asker]

Thank you bro for ur very honest n detailed answer!

[Opinion Owner]

You’re welcome man , just do that, be respectful, and see how it’ll go from there

[Asker]

Ok ty bro bro

[pink_blah]

They aren't flirting with your, theyre just giving you flash cards to study with. Students help out students😭

[Asker]

Yeah sorry i may have overacting it lol

[slatyb]

They are flirting

[Asker]

Really? aren't they just truing to help me?

[slatyb]

It's possible, but you could invite them to lunch or something to thank them for all their help. If they didn't like you, they wouldn't give you any attention.

[Asker]

Ok so i guess this is their way of flirting?