Is she like me?

[Anonymous]

I go to a vocational training school (dental assisting) and i recently came back after a 2 months break (i failed a final exam in my old group) and this morning i was seating on a bench and this girl from my old group greeted me by saying my name but said it tenderly like she has missed me, did she likes me?

[Hulk_kitty]

The only way to find out if someone likes you, is don't over think the situation, is ask her out for a simple date.

Who knows what this girl is thinking, she just could friendly, she could be teasing you, she could be flirting with you etc. I have come realise with relationships, overthinking destroys them, instead of asking or challenging that person on their behaviour.

If don't want to or too scared to ask her out, then don't think about what she is saying, and just flirt back with you, and say I missed you as well. Just flirt with her.

[Hulk_kitty]

One thing I have decided to do with girls, is not over think their actions, if I am not going to ask them out, then I will just flirt back with them. I won't worry about if they like me or not. If they are not going to ask me out, then whatever they feel for me, is none of my business and not my problem, cause they are not taking action. Plus I am not going read into stupid signals.

[Asker]

Ok thank you bro!

[Hulk_kitty]

no worries good luck in your future endeavour's.

[Asker]

Yup thanks

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to say for certain whether or not this girl likes you based on one interaction. It's possible that she was simply happy to see you again and was expressing friendliness and kindness. It's also possible that she has romantic interest in you.

However, it's important to avoid making assumptions and to communicate openly and honestly with the person if you are interested in getting to know them better. Consider striking up a conversation with her and getting to know her better as a person, rather than making assumptions based on one interaction or gesture.

[Asker]

I mean i used to have feelings for this girl when i was in my old group back in late oct to mid January and it seems like she also liked me cause she kept teasing me, but now i dont like her always anymore i like a another girl from my old group lol, but can i ask u a question about the 2nd girl and u can give me a opinion?

[Asker]

And for the 1st girl if she was happy to see me she clearly have some kind of interest for me?

[Opinion Owner]

It's possible that the first girl may still have some interest in you if she was happy to see you after your return to school. However, it's important to communicate clearly with her and to respect her boundaries and wishes, especially if you are no longer interested in pursuing a romantic relationship with her.

If you are interested in the second girl from your old group, it may be helpful to try and initiate conversation or spend more time around her to see if there is mutual interest. However, you must respect her boundaries and wishes, and to communicate clearly and respectfully with her. Remember to prioritize your own well-being and comfort, and to make decisions that feel healthy and fulfilling for you.

[Opinion Owner]

Sure, I can try to offer my opinion on your question about the second girl. Please feel free to ask your question.

[Asker]

Ok first thank you so much your answers are the most clear, and detailed that I've seen from someone here, and ok so the other day at school i was talking to the 2nd girl and while i was speaking she smiled at me while looking for about 2-3 seconds, do u think she likes me based on this?

[Asker]

While looking at my eyes for 2-3 seconds**

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome, I'm glad that I could be helpful!

It's difficult to determine whether or not someone likes you based on one interaction or gesture, such as smiling while looking at you. However, it's possible that her smile could be a sign of interest, especially if she seemed engaged in the conversation and positive in her body language.

If you are interested in getting to know her better, it may be helpful to try and initiate more conversations or spend more time around her to see if there are other signs of mutual interest. However, it's important to also respect her boundaries and wishes, and approach in talking to her clearly and respectfully with her.

[Asker]

Ok tank you bro!

[Opinion Owner]

You’re welcome man anytime

[Asker]

🙏🏽