Im now almost 40 years old. Im still real friends with 2 of the guys from my high school I gre up in as a student. The 3 of us still make fun of each other only for our own black entertainment, just like in high school.
One of those 2, had a lifelong crush on our history teacher, since high school. We still make fun of him for lusting over a woman double our age, in a position that she cannot even flirt with him.
I know I do not support such relationships because it is highly unprofessional, even in universities where both are adults. For high school, and below its even worse. There is nothing illegal in having a crush.
My question is not about supporting student teacher relationships. Its just curiosity if crushes have evolved to authority figures like teachers.
Ever had a crush on your teacher?
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I have had crushes on pretty much every single one of my male teachers from a very young age up until now. It's weird but I like that they are older than me, that they have this authority and power over me. Like my grade rests in their hands and that is such a kink for me lol 😬 cringe I know. You have no idea how sexy I find it, it's literally my kryptonite.
I thank God nothing ever happened. But I've had creepy pedo teachers before. I had a vice principal in middle school that... It seemed like he had a crush on me. I think I repressed the interactions because I can't really remember too much.
I just remembered him always seeking me out, always trying to talk to me. I caught him checking me out from behind once or twice and he didn't try to hide it when I turned around and made eye contact with him.
I remember him making this pedophile joke about how he wants young girls to like him because that gets his engine going or something strange like that. He said that in front of faculty and I wonder if they thought that was weird. I had a huge crush on him and he knew it. He wasn't even hot, he was just in a position of power which I loved so much.
Then in high school, I had a few teachers who were into me and I into them very extremely much. I don't remember too much, again repressed memories for some reason.
I had a history teacher who was a soccer coach and I had a huge huge crush on him. He knew it. Actually my friend and I had a crush on him together. He knew and he would mess with us, switching off on different days because he loved our reactions.
Like Monday he would mess with me and completely ignore my friend and then Tuesday he would mess with my friend and completely ignore me. Every time he'd do that it would destroy one of us when we were on the day he would ignore us.
Her and I were both obsessed with him we would talk about him constantly. I remember he would make jokes with us in class, we sat in the very back but he would casually stroll to the back of the classroom and interact/distract us in some way.
Then one random day he completely chose me for some reason and he stopped liking my friend and he put all his attention on me only. That shattered my friend but made my obsession even worse. I felt so special.
Then he only had his eyes on me constantly, only talking to me, only joking with me. I loved the attention. When I joined the soccer team to basically be around him more and also I liked soccer too he started making kind of inappropriate jokes about my body.
I felt like he was crossing the line because he pissed me off at one point and so I innocently told a different teacher about his joke and I knew that would land him in hot water. It did, he retaliated by being a huge douche to me throughout the entire soccer season that I eventually just quit by not going anymore.
Then I've had crushes on almost all my professors in college. Thankfully nothing ever happened, they were just eye candy and fantasies for me even though most of them weren't even that hot, just older men. I have a thing for older guys... I wonder if it's daddy issues...
But my male professors were too professional and married to do anything and I doubt they knew I liked them. I wouldn't have acted on it anyway. But yeah that is definitely a huge turn on for me.
I initially found a few attractive (6 throughout junior high/high school and 1 in college)— #1 Coach Lott was the hot history teacher but was cheating on his wife with the English teacher. #2 Coach Thompson was the hot tech teacher until we learned he was dating a minor. Disgusting. They were together for years and years and he married her soon as she hit 18. #3 Mr. (Forgot His Name) was the hot detention teacher until he turned out to be a huge perve who made inappropriate comments about my and other students body parts and how he wanted to screw us and run a train on us and so on. I had to see this loser at church playing all sanctified. #4 Doc was a hot science teacher but he was so fckin mean that everyone felt intimidated around him. #5 Coach Dyess was a hot science teacher until he told me to tell my future college professor he said “Hi”. I didn't think much of it and I did. Turns out, he was bangin that professors wife and caused their divorce. My professor cried in front of the class after i delivered that message. I was soooo embarassed. #6 Mr. Rainey was an adorable science or math teacher (I forgot which because I never had his class) but senior year of HS, i worked in the office so he came to see me a lot. I was 18 when we met and we flirted a lot. I don't know i had a thing for him for sure. Plus i had to walk around and take up attendance so we would find excuses to be around eachother. He was the only HS teacher i felt comfortable enough to even flirt with. And he was very professional around other students. Not whoring like the other teachers above. #7 Mr Hancock was the one college professor I was into and this was during my junior year. He looked to be in his 20s as well and we often ran into eachother in the halls and elevator where we constantly had eye sex regardless of alone or around others. But then he started making me the topic in class on the daily and it began to weird me out a bit. Found out later on that he was muuuch older than he looked AND a newlywed. So i stopped flirting back but could tell he was wondering what changed. Sometime later i went to his office for help on a project and the secretary requested the door remain cracked open. A bit suspicious huh. Well yes even with the door open, he physically made some moves on me and i freaked out and left. I then started skipping his class.
And i almost forgot Principal Will. He was hot until i found out how he got off on paddling students. I got paddled once for being tardy. The secretary who he was having an affair with (found out later) was like, bend over, spread your legs and stare into the principals eyes. Like what? And he’s just smirk the whole time. It was too humiliating to even find hot. Both were weirdos and got fired after that year because someone finally ratted them out
I know what a crush is but can't define it. Maybe it's infatuation without knowing? Yes, I fell in love with my middle school teacher. there were other attractive women at the time and mean older ones. It's around when the hormones turn on, maybe that influenced. But as well, I felt love for her, not so much lust... it was how she communicated and carried herself with confidence, moderate dress, look. I was smitten and couldn't focus. there were other girls around, I wasn't interested in general that I recall.
She's the only one I recall while growing up, others maybe looked good or curvy, but not personality wise. I was most impressed and enthralled when her husband showed up in class one day, she introduced him, and he was a short dorky chemical engineer looking fellow. She was taller by a few inches. It blew my mind, and she described how they met and instantly felt a match. ...
I love my wife whose a 1st grade teacher. She's fun, playful, beautiful, amazing woman of character and I'm blessed to have her as my wife! She married a nerdy introverted geek!:)
"Im now almost 40 years old. Im still real friends with 2 of the guys from my high school I gre up in as a student. The 3 of us still make fun of each other only for our own black entertainment, just like in high school."
68 and still have a close friendship with 2 of my male high school classmates and one who sadly passed a few months ago. Have the same kind of high school banter and entertainment that you have with them to this day. You can never replace that with anything. Also still friends with a High School sweetheart who is married with grandchildren now.
Had a serious crush on my HS French teacher. OOOO LA LA she was hot! That's all I'm gonna say. 😎
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3 mo
You are right, the teenage foolishness becomes the identity of friendship, that will be laughed about for lifetime.
I was so turned on by my teachers' feet when I was in grade school. It seemed like they all had the most beautiful feet I'd ever seen, and sometimes, when one of them was paddling my bottom, I'd look down and see her sexy bare feet in her sandals, with her toenails painted in red lacquer, and I'd be playing with myself for months afterwards.
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You remind me of Mort from the Netflix show King Julian.
My senior year I stopped going in the guidance counselor office because the new one they hired ( she was like 20) kept making me feel really uncomfortable she was always rubbing my back a lot
And when I homeless in 5th grade my teacher tried to adopt me
The guidance counselor story is kinda funny though I mean she was pretty and everything I just wasn’t ready for sex I can’t tell you how many of guys called me a homo lmaoo
@AnusNdaPainus "The guidance counselor story is kinda funny though I mean she was pretty and everything I just wasn’t ready for sex I can’t tell you how many of guys called me a homo lmaoo"
I passed on opportunities many times in my life. Never regretted it once I really figured out that your value as a man has nothing to do with that AND there's a lot of baggage & potential baggage that I avoided.
Not high school or college but in grad school I had a super crush on my history professor. He was so hot to me and I was tempted to ask him out for drinks but I never did get up the nerve to actually do it.
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Its good that you didn't ask him out because he could loose his licence to teach if he got in bed with you, or worse.
I had a crush on 60% of my male religious university professors in school. Anybody between 27-45 years old that had a PhD cause our school was elite so all the professors were good looking, all were smart, all were nice, all were hard working, and most were very religious since they would have earned more money if they had studied medicine or finance, and all were nice people.
My high school biology teacher was a cute blonde who just graduated college. It was her first year teaching. I often thought about her during some self-pleasure moments.
Kindergarten, 1st grade, 2nd grade, (3rd grade was a bitch), 4th grade was kind of like Mom, so, no on that one, less so on from there as I matured, but yeah, for sure, man.
It'd be nice to know who you are, instead of just "anonymous".
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Im anonomus so the focus is on the topic, not who they are. But anyway, students of grades 1-6 see adults as parent figures. The middle and high school is when the hormones kick in and trigger the fantasies, and crushes.
I had a few hot teachers but never thought about them sexually. There were plenty of attractive girls for me to think about and talk to do it never occurred to me to think about the hot teachers like that.
In 8th grade I had a huge crush on the substitute teacher. He was pretty young and handsome. To my dismay I was taller than him and he looked at me and said, “Whoa! I didn’t realize how tall you are! Are you sure you’re in the right grade?” I was 5’11 at age 13 and he was about three inches shorter than me. The class laughed at me accept my besties.
I hada crush on a couple of my teachers, and actually when I was 18 hooked up with a student teacher who taught at my school after we bumped into each other at a club which was not the most sensible idea for either of us!
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That puts your reputation up, but hers down. If word got out she would be untrusted at her profession at best.
Now that you achieved what many only fantasize about, do you have any regrets or was it still the fulfillment of your dreams.
I mean she was hot and still quite young (only 3 years between us) so it didn't feel like that crazy fantasy situation but it certainly had an added element of "we shouldn't" that made it more exciting
Yeah. I had a hot af professor for botany in 11th and 12th grade. Almost all girls in my class had a crush on him, including me. He was around 33-34, I guess? I found his LinkedIn profile lmao😭
I had a crush on my grade 11 math teacher he was 28 and good looking he was dating our cosmetology supply teacher she was around 27 I think. They were both the best looking teachers in school lol
Not my teacher, but I've definitely had a crush on some of those honkers and boobies! Those melons, chesticles, bazoombas and coconuts are so dreamy! I can't resist giving them a few noogies and jugs.
YES, ironically enough my sex-ed teacher in grade school!!! LOL
It was 6th grade... she was like 26 years old... and yeah... she was hot. And she was the first woman other than my mother that talk about sex to me. I was Awkard as hell!!!
She was like the third-grade teacher, but I guess she got tasked or volunteered for sex -ed... why you would pick a young and hot 26 year old to teach sex ed to 6th grades... no idea! LOL
Im not suprised it felt awkward. Sex should not be a class room discussion for that age group.
The point of my original post was to point out that even if decades later after high school the former teacher and student would hook up, they would be made fun of or seen as potential predators.
Looking at all these comments, no girl has confessed taking matters to their own fingers. They talk about crushes but lusting over them the way you and few others do.
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