When ur bullied at work, how do you hide it from them so they don’t keep doing it?

[Anonymous]

I’m miserable and can’t sleep well. Becoming depressed and it’s not fun. I’m otherwise vibrant, cheerful, positive and ambitious. For some reason I’m outcasted at work by many and I’m certain they can see I’m not doing well. I don’t bite back or retaliate or anything. It doesn’t interest me. I’ve never done anything to these folks and very stumped why they have such a display of dislikes towards me. Personally I’d rather them just confront me and we can all work it out and move on.

How do I hide it’s bothering me, in hopes they’ll quit doing it? Quitting my job isn’t an option as it’s my financial support and I am my own breadwinner.

[Anonymous]

There was a guy being bullied at work and it had been going on for 2 weeks. I prayed Psalm 91 over him by name and over the situation. 2 days later the bullying stopped. Many have forgotten that we have been given tools to deal with situations but because so many of us have shunned the spiritual realm, we are left without a toolbox. Every situation in the physical realm can be effected by what we do through the spiritual realm.

Thus my suggestion to you would be to seek God and turn to Him. We are meant for fellowship with Jesus.

[jahaims]

I don't let people bully me.

[Asker]

So then you quit every time? Go to HR? Confront?

[jahaims]

I confront.

[Asker]

I understand that. The last person that confronted them at work, had her hours reduced and was excluded from work gatherings, she was bullied more and eventually quit.

[jahaims]

You can document that if it happens to you and take legal action.

[nateyoder23]

I would quit if it got to much.