



Yeah i think ill reiterate what @rosemilk said that they probably felt you would be a detriment to them because of your mental health issues. it does suck but companies do seem to discriminate if you mention anything like that to them. Also you said a manager their 'touched you?' i assume physically touching you without your consent? if thats the case and you mentioned that to anyone there they might also be looking out for their own in case you decide to report him to anyone.
All in all just try to find a job somewhere else. Maybe take care of your mental health in the meantime
The manager he touched me without my consent. I never mentioned that he touched me to anyone.
hmmm ok in either case sounds like you're better off not working there
Ya no im not working there again or for the company cuz the company line well one of them is “great for female employees”
lol well of course they'll say that, its corporate bs they gotta say
In most US states, employers can fire an employee for any reason, or for no reason. They don't need to explain themselves. At this point, it's best to just move on. Don't try to get an explanation of why you were fired... you won't get one.
I already moved on cuz i realized I won’t get one anyways
okay, firstly, never bust your ass for any company. they don't really care. they only have their best interest in mind. not yours. the truth is in the way you were at work on that Sunday (i'm reading the info from a comment). most companies don't like dealing with others who show their mental health. i know it's fucked up. they used that against you. just make sure you leave a review about how badly you were treated by management. there's not much else you can do.
I never told anyone especially the managers that I suffer with mental health cuz I know it would effect the job even more
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My opinion is that you’re leaving a hell of a lot out of this story. What happened Sunday?
I got kicked out of my house a few Sundays ago after a fight with my mom and I ended up having a panic attack and was contemplating. (Im back home tho) I worked that Sunday as well. I had nothing underneath besides underwear. I was wearing blue jeans and a shirt and crocs. When the attire is all black. I walked to work like I usually do. And when I got there I was still crying and hyperventilating trying to calm myself down. Two male managers were there and they talked to me and i told them what happened. They offered to pay for a hotel for me for a few days and asked if I had other options to stay with a friend. A female coworker offered and I said no cuz I personally don’t like people helping me cuz it makes me feel weak. I also said no to the hotel as well for the same reason. I was really stressed as well. One manager that just transferred there would always touch me as well and I would tense up while still helping guests and I never said anything to anyone. The email between that guy and I is the manager that would touch me. I said I quit and then I went to the bathroom then came back out and said I changed my mind. They said they were glad cuz I changed my mind and said im a good employee. I called my mom in private to talk it out with her and work it out. Which we did and came home the same day. I would host, serve food, buss tables, run food and more. I was never allowed to take my breaks cuz I was afraid to get yelled at. I was the only busser as well until 5 new ones got hired. I was able to clean the whole dining area within 5 mins too. And when I sat down drink some water I got yelled at by the managers. there's 5 managers. I wasn’t even allowed to eat food cuz I was afraid to get yelled at. I over heard the managers talking about me when I went to get gloves and they were saying that we’re planning to fire me and or get me to quit. I even was forced to clean up the bathrooms when people threw up and had the shits and shit all over the floor
or if there was blood. The managers are supposed to clean up bodily fluids which is what i was told when I got hired. They held my tips for months when I would ask for them. I would get sick as well which I got strep, covid, pink eye all from bussing tables. And they still wanted me to work and I still came in even tho I was contagious
But on that Sunday the two managers told me they’re gonna do everything they can to make sure I’m ok and that they’re there for me. Cuz I also did front desk which is selling power cards too and I was even in the bar and in the arcade doing basically everything too when my job was only front desk/host. Sometimes I’ll be there early and leave early if I have something going on later that day. I was cleaning dishes as well as cooking too. So i did a shit ton. And I never got a raise either after basically running the location. Guests had even asked me if was a manager and i said no. That Sunday was really stressful for me as I was forced to block my family cuz of my mom telling me to block them cuz she kicked me out and im not allowed to have contact with any family. I was told i abandoned the family. I was contemplating as well cuz where I live it’s around an industrial area so lots of semis are always around. So when I was emailed that I was very hurt and I emailed back trying not be rude yk? Cuz I was told I could always come back no matter what.
They really want you gone
They had it planned cuz I overheard the managers wanting to fire me and or try to get me to quit. I replied to gorydetails explaining more
Just look for another job. No point crying over spilled milk
I already did. Cuz I had a feeling they weren’t gonna take me back so I’ve been applying to jobs. So im just waiting for a response back. I only applied to jobs with easy transportation cuz I would sometimes Uber there.
Best to get one that is walking distance. Or where you can take a bike to work.
Then save up to get a car
I don’t in my opinion how to ride a bike sadly so im ngl saving up for a car cuz I don't know how to drive so my mom is teaching me how to drive. But ik I’ll end up getting a car and ik I’ll be ok and this is just a bump in the road and it’s life. All jobs aren’t perfect so it’s best to do ur best and do what u need to do. Cuz I was hurt about it but now I’m honestly over it cuz my friend said there’s no point worrying about it. So I just worried about myself and focused on myself. Cuz I still can’t tell if they fired me cuz I said I quit then changed my mind the same day in the building. So that’s the only part I can’t fully comprehend if I got fired. Cuz the jobs I applied for are walking distance so ik I’ll be ok. Once I get a car then I can obviously drive to work but ya. I wanna focus on the important things atm so I’m not gonna worry about that job cuz it’s only gonna make me upset
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Let’s start with the grammar
did u hand your resignation in?
No i didn’t I never did
in that case take them to court for unfair dismissal
I don’t have the money for that. Plus im over it anyway
do u have a new job?
No i dont tbh I applied to a lot so im waiting for responses
My paycheck was only $200 as well even tho I had more hours I worked when i should’ve got around $450
Are you ok?
Ya im ok now. Just pretty much only struggling with the way the manager touched me without my consent which has only been leading to sleepless nights. Other than that I’m ok. Taking care of myself and applying to more jobs with easy transportation
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