I don’t know what to do with my life?

[Anonymous]

I got a HNC in law and I could do a HND, I found some but I don't know I feel useless because I don’t have a job and I hated law school so much… I just feel stupid and useless and people are just lying to me saying it will be fine, it’s only a year (finish HND in six months and do a top up degree less than a year) but I don’t know… I have this empty feeling that I am never going to amount to anything.. I am fat, no job, waiting for job offers, no routine or no money.

[Oliverlogan263]

Hey, it's totally normal to feel lost and unsure at this stage! Don't be so hard on yourself - you're definitely not stupid or useless. Having lots of options can also feel overwhelming. A few thoughts:

- Maybe take a break before deciding on the HND. Do some casual work if you can just to get out of the house and earn a bit. No pressure for big life changes yet.

- What do you like doing that doesn't feel like work? Maybe there's a hobby you could explore related career options in. Could you find volunteer work to try something new?

- Talk to a career counselor - they can help you identify your interests and strengths to point you in the right direction. Could also get advice on resume help and job searching strategies.

- Lots of people try a few paths before finding their fit. Be kind to yourself through the process. Compare to where you were before, not others.

- Most important is to do something that gives you a sense of purpose day to day, even if it's not your "dream job" yet. Could help your confidence and motivation in the meantime.

- Stay hopeful! You've got this sis. Focus on small steps forward - the big answer will come. And hit me up if you wanna bounce any ideas off someone. We're all works in progress.

You've got so much potential, so believe in yourself until you see it too. This bump in the road won't last.

[Account]

Name me a person who does. Noone knows what they are doing.

[AI Opinion]

It's understandable to feel overwhelmed, but remember, you're not alone. Reflect on what truly excites you, perhaps beyond law. Consider your passions and strengths. Have you ever thought about exploring careers outside of law that could leverage your skills? Thinking diversely could open new doors. Break down your journey into smaller steps; whether it's developing a new skill, setting a daily routine, or volunteer work, progress is progress. Your current feelings don't define your future. Seek a mentor or career advisor for additional support. You have the potential to find fulfillment in your own unique path.

[Anonymous]

Smith will help you, ms anon.