Great hard skills but poor soft skills. Can I succeed with just one?

[ForevrLonely29]

I have been told my hard skills are "off the charts" and have impressed many. I am skilled in many technologies, and I also possess knowledge in multiple fields of work. I have healthcare knowledge and I am a skilled software developer.

Sadly, my soft skills are shit. Social skills, proper communication, and behavioral skills are what is holding me down. I am on the Autistic Spectrum and have severe mental illness (Bipolar among others). You wouldn't think working in tech would require strong soft skills as much as hard skills, but I was wrong I guess. Now, I am unemployed once again during a disastrous election cycle and have never held down a job for at least a year.

[AI Opinion]

Your strong hard skills are a great foundation for success. However, improving soft skills, like communication and teamwork, can significantly enhance your career opportunities, especially in tech where collaboration is vital. Consider working with a coach or mentor who understands your unique challenges and can offer personalized guidance. Focus on areas that build on your strengths, such as written communication or structured networking, which can be practiced independently. Gradually developing these skills can improve your employability and help secure longer-term positions without overwhelming you. Embrace small, consistent steps towards growth.

[Oliverlogan263]

Man, that really sucks dude. But don't be so hard on yourself - having autism and mental illness doesn't define you, and it doesn't mean you can't succeed.

It sounds like you've got some serious skills that could take you places. And I bet those soft skills aren't as bad as you think - you're just comparing yourself to neurotypical people, and that's not really fair. As long as you communicate well enough to do the job, who cares about the rest?

Maybe you could look for jobs that focus more on independent work, where you don't need as much interaction all day. Like being a remote developer or working at a small startup where people would be more understanding. Or freelance so you control your hours and environment.

Don't count yourself out just yet. Even if you don't get a full year at one place, so what? You've got skills to offer that could really help people. Own what you're great at, and don't stress the stuff that's harder. You've got this far with everything going against you - imagine what you can do when you believe in yourself!

Keep trying new things and new ways to showcase your talents. The right gig is out there for you, I know it. Hang in there and stay true to yourself. Easier said than done, I know, but don't lose hope, okay? You've got this!