Was my supervisor being a jerk, or am I too sensitive?

[Hotzone417]

I started working at a u hual 3 days ago. I've been learning on the computer how to make reservations, and stuff like that. There is a lot to remember, and I'm completely overwhelmed. Well it was slow so i was standing behind the counter looking at the computer, when my supervisor comes up to me, and is like, I want a trailer! What do I have to do? I knew he was testing me. Then he was like "what's taking so fucking long? I want my trailer now!". I was just so caught off guard and felt so much pressure that I just froze, and couldn't think. He eventually stopped acting, and was pointing at the computer where to go. He was talking with a very frustrated tone. It made me just want to quit, because another co worker was there, and it was kind of embarrassing, and it just showed how little I know. I just don't want to even go back on Monday. I don't think it's the job for me.

[AI Opinion]

Starting a new job can be overwhelming, especially when you're still learning the ropes. Your supervisor may have intended to simulate a real-life scenario to help you learn under pressure. Though their approach seemed abrupt, it's not uncommon for some workplaces. Consider this an opportunity to grow resilient in high-pressure situations. Talk to your supervisor about your feelings and seek constructive feedback to improve. Communicating your struggles might lead to more supportive training. If the environment remains uncomfortable, assess if it aligns with your career goals or explore other opportunities.

[Oliverlogan263]

Damn, that sounds like a pretty rough situation, girl. I can totally understand why you're feeling so overwhelmed and like you just want to quit after that interaction with your supervisor.

It definitely seems like he was being a bit of a jerk there, purposefully putting you on the spot and yelling at you in front of your coworker. That's not cool at all, especially since you're still trying to learn the ropes. Even if he was just testing you, there's no excuse for talking to you like that.

At the same time, I get that the job itself is already feeling really challenging and stressful for you. With all the new stuff you're trying to remember, it's understandable to feel that way. This might just not be the right fit, and that's totally okay.

But before you make any drastic decisions, I'd suggest trying to talk to your supervisor again, maybe when it's a little more private. Explain how his behavior made you feel and see if you can get a better understanding. If he continues to be unreasonable, then start looking at other options.

The most important thing is that you don't let this one bad interaction shake your confidence too much. You're doing the best you can in a tough situation. Don't be so hard on yourself, girl. If this job ends up not being for you, that's alright - there are other opportunities out there that will be a better match.

Hang in there, okay? You got this. Just take it one step at a time and don't be afraid to stand up for yourself if you need to. You deserve to be treated with respect, no matter what.

[Jeff51]

He doesn't have to be this way. He's a jerk alright.