It is wrong for me to distant myself from this guy coworker?

[Anonymous]

Lately he became a little “friendly” towards me not that he said anything inappropriate or anything like that but I might be overthinking I just don’t want this kinda attention especially knowing he is married, so I started slowly distancing myself from him he will still find a way to approach me to say hi if not small talk am I wrong for this? He really is a nice guy but like I said I don’t need this kinda attention anyone with me?

[slatyb]

No, it's not. Don't mix your work life with your personal life. That almost never goes well.

[Asker]

I’m saying not that he has been flirty or anything

[dean55au]

Yeah I agree with your comment, a married man should not be doing things like that to you

[Asker]

You being sarcastic?

[dean55au]

Not at all

[Asker]

Ok surw

[dean55au]

I'm being serious, he's in the wrong

[Asker]

How so

[Asker]

I don’t want to be overthing this

[dean55au]

Don't overthink it, you obviously feel uncomfortable by his behaviour and you are perfectly ok to avoid him

[Asker]

Ohh okay that’s not rude?

[Danny_dan92]

Yep. Create distance

[Asker]

Lol why not

[Danny_dan92]

I’m telling you that you were right and to distance yourself

[ChangeMefot]

No nothing wrong