My engaged coworker clearly likes me—how should I handle this?

[Smiley32]

Yes I know he likes me but how I take it knowing that he engaged and he makes it obvious he likes me and I see it too now but knowing he is engaged I need to maybe be careful about it? We are friends at the moment any takes?

[jazzy34]

Unless a man explicitly tells you he likes you and makes real effort to pursue you, don’t assume anything. Believe me. Been there, done that. Bought the t-shirt. Hints and signs don’t mean anything. If he liked you, he wouldn’t be engaged to another woman. Get over yourself.

[Smiley32]

Heard

[midnightmoon05]

What did he do or say that makes you think so?

[OlderAndWiser]

Next time he expresses interest, ask him if he and his fiancee can get together with you sometime. He will get the idea to back off.

[Smiley32]

I will do

[slatyb]

Deflect any attempts at flirting. Say "aren't you engaged?"

[Smiley32]

I will not

[molonski2]

Just go out with him and enjoy , being just engaged does not stop sexual attraction..

[NathanDavis]

you already should know what kind of person, YOU ARE

either you care, or you don't

[Alex-Snow]

Just tell him directly that you value the friendship but that it will never be more than that.

[Iron_Man]

This is a big problem. He shouldn’t get married like this

[WhitneySnow]

Distance yourself from him

[In_Trance]

Don't fuck your coworkers

[Smiley32]

This is my brothers I work some where else

[In_Trance]

Your question clearly says your coworker

[Smiley32]

Auto correct shit

[Still-alive]

distance from him and ignore him

[Abbycado]

What is “it”?

[Smiley32]

His engagement

[Abbycado]

You’re a fuckwit, essentially. @Agape93

[SueShe]

You know very well, young lady♧