Extremely attracted to a coworker- how do I handle?

[Anonymous]

• Struggling with extreme attraction at work for a year now. We have always had formal interactions. Never had any discussion outside of work. None of us has approached each other about the feeling but on several occasions we have had multiple eye contacts, smiles, body language that shows attraction and admiration towards each other. He would show interest in knowing what’s going on in my life and stuff but nothing major. I don’t know where this is going coz a few months ago I was almost able to move on with the idea that it’s ok to have a crush at work as long as it doesn’t bother your peace of mind, but last week we had an interaction which sparked that feeling in me and I have started observing about him again.

[Guy13]

Why don’t you two go to the CCOSTCO together and fill-up the cars.. and talk. I mean man, move on or do something about it. If not a boss-subordinate dynamic who cares…

[MrCommodore]

Perhaps you should explore whether it's possible for you both to get together.