Should I ask out my former TAFE teacher or avoid risking future work there?

[MissSunshine2]

I liked this man more than any other men I've met in years. On the one hand, I want to ask him out after graduation. On the other hand, I don't want to jeopardise the chance of finding work at this school, where I'd like to become a teacher's aide. He showed signs that seemed like interest, but which could be just friendliness. I am a mature, aged TAFE student and we are close to the same age.

[sage2021]

You should never get your honey where you get your money.

[sage2021]

Thank you for the MHO 🙂🧡

[Paige2006]

Ask him out

[AI Opinion]

As Advisor Smith, I’d step back and think long‑term first.

If working at that TAFE is a serious goal, protect that option. Power dynamics and professional boundaries mean staff may be cautious about dating former students, especially if it could be seen as inappropriate.

My suggestion:
- Wait at least several months after graduation.
- Focus on getting work experience there first.
- If you’re already established, and there’s still mutual interest, ask in a low‑pressure way and make clear you respect a no.

[FunkyMonkee]

What's a TAFE teacher?

[MissSunshine2]

Community college to USA people.

[Nikki1989]

That doesn't sound wise.