Is this new security guard job a great fit for me?

[IHaveRespawned]

I just started my security role on site today (sort of). I am still in training for this weekend. I got to assist in the arrest of a trespasser today. There are only 3 scenarios where I get to physically intervene: if there is an intense fight, at the request of law enforcement, and if I have to administer CPR/first aid. I am the building first responder. Mostly it is easy sailing and I just walk around scanning barcodes and answering questions for patrons.

The problem is, I am plastered as a stalker and predator online with a turbulent past. I worry about that sometimes, although, I am married and a different man now than I used to be. But I fear my past will haunt me.

I managed to pass the company background check. My concern is passing the second background check conducted by the state.

I am on disability and working this role just to make some supplemental income, as long as I remain below the Substantial Gainful Activity amount.

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[exitseven]

sounds good to me. Don;t worry about the state background check. Nobody that works for the state ever does their job.

[Anonymous]

So the McDonald's guy has a new account and a new job as a security guard (which you already posted about under the old account).

[LazerBean]

If it's a good fit, then you will be there for a long time. So time will tell.

[DryGermanGuy]

👏👏👏
Do you get to drive around in a little scooter with a rotating light on its top? 😁

[msc545]

You are right in believing that the state background check would be more serious and therefore more of a problem.

[IHaveRespawned]

The state requirement involving criminal history when acquiring an unarmed security license:

If convicted in any jurisdiction of any of the crimes listed, you must have completed serving a sentence or court-ordered probation at least five (5) years prior to application.

a. Any felony, or

b. Any misdemeanor involving

- Shooting a firearm or other weapon,

- Shoplifting,

- Assault and battery or other act of violence against persons or property,

- Crimes involving the sale, manufacture, or distribution of controlled substances, controlled substance analogues, drugs, or narcotics,

- Theft of property, or

- Theft of services

[IHaveRespawned]

... my misdemeanor stalking conviction was over 10 years ago and I completed my probation in 2019.

[msc545]

Well, that certainly seems to fit the requirements, so let's see what happens.

[Iron_Man]

Were you charged for Stalking online what did you do?

[Agape93]

He fucked a minor while a grown ass man, and when she didn't want anything to do with him afterwards, he stalked her to the point she got her dad involved, who pressed charges on him. So while he skirted by legally on fucking a minor, he was convicted for stalking.

[Iron_Man]

Did he tell you all this?

[Agape93]

He's openly talked about this shit for a good while now.

[Iron_Man]

@Agape93 not good. I’m not gonna talk to him anymore. I was trying to encourage him because he’s trying to work, but I’m not gonna get involved. in talking to him about work.

[IHaveRespawned]

This happened over 10 years ago, and me and the girl were less than 4 years apart in age. This weird woman (@Agape93) seems to be all hung up on that because I think she has some undealt PTSD about a past encounter she had.

[Iron_Man]

I don’t know the details of what’s going on you guys work it out

[Agape93]

I'm hung up on the fact that you can't acknowledge its objectively wrong for a grown man to fuck minors.

[IHaveRespawned]

@Agape93 I told you there is no clear cut answer. If there is a small age difference and the older one does not exceed the close-in-age exemptions, then there is nothing wrong. If the older one is considerably older (more than just a few years), then yes, that is problematic. But I don't know why you are so hung up on my past and something that occurred 10 years ago. There is something weird about that. I am a married man now and devouted to my wife. I don't have time or motivation for little girls!

[Agape93]

Yes or no. Follow basic fucking instructions.

[Cidknee]

There sure is a lot of forgiveness on this page. Funny, how many of you "good" folks always are at the gate when this guy tries to make positive gain. Maybe minding ones own bid'ness would be the best thing to do.

[Agape93]

Who accused me of being a good person?,

Irony, considering you wandered into someone else's conversation, cidknee

[Cidknee]

Thats what we do here. EVERYthing is open conversation.

[Agape93]

Then dont tell anyone else to mind their business if you won't.

[IHaveRespawned]

@Agape93 You really gotta deal with those undealt issues of yours. And not everything is a clear cut answer.

[Cidknee]

@Agape93
You're problem here is thinking you have control over other people. That "grown ass man" was no more experienced than the little baby you think she was.
You are into his business like a rat in a cheese factory so you do you and everybody will continue ignoring your bitching. How's that miss " poor pitiful me".

[Agape93]

This is. It's a yes or no, and the fact you can't bring yourself to acknowledge the fact fucking and stalking a minor isn't ok, says a lot about you as a person.

[Cidknee]

Things aren't as black and white as you make it out to be either. Blah, blah, you're so judgmental! Let's have your history sister! Or are you to afraid?

[Agape93]

Afraid of what? Im not out here fucking and stalking a minor. He is. So yeah, im gonna judge him because this shit is black and white.

As of now, you're being ignored, cidknee. Reply all you want, im done talking to you.

[Cidknee]

Awe...

[IHaveRespawned]

@Agape93 You said "He is." That is defamation. "Is": that is present tense. I am NOT out stalking and "fucking" minors. I am a married man now.

[Agape93]

Defamation requires shit to not be true. You've shown yourself on here even in the last couple years, to still pursue minors sexually and romantically. You've still not once said that you no longer desire them, nor that you'd ever do it again if given the chance. So yeah, far as im concerned, you still are until you state you dont desire them anymore and find it immoral to pursue them.

Also, Defamation is verbal.

So until then, cry about it.

[Cidknee]

You're liable nasty! And he don't have to reply to suit you. Who are you to think you are his gate keeper? You're a sick and demented, most intolerable bitch.

[IHaveRespawned]

@Cidknee She sure is. I made it absolutely clear that I have NO intention to pursue any other female, as I am married and devouted to my wife whom I love dearly

[Agape93]

Then why not make it clear, here and now? Acknowledge pursuing minors for sex is wrong. That simple.

[Cidknee]

😂🙄🤮

[Cidknee]

Yes, and what a pack of venomous bitches say doesn't amount to a hill of beans.

[Anonymous]

I heard background checks only go back ten years, but I could be wrong about that

[Anonymous]

Does your wife know your past?

[IHaveRespawned]

She doea

[Staximus]

Dude you can’t work and be on disability

[Cidknee]

Yes, you can. It's called 'Ticket to Work'.