I find I am often penalized when I go above normal behavioural expectations.
I had people vandalize my belongings and steal them and I had people ban me from parties because they were jealous I had a big vocabulary and knew around 12 times more words then they did and read around 40 times more books then them.
And I had classmates steal my home work out of jealousy over my academic performance and the professor had no choice but to give me perfect A's because my home work was stolen so he could not grade it any way, and I got perfect A's before my home work folder was stolen.
And then today, I had google flag me because I typed 20 times faster than a normal fast typer and they thought I was a bot and not a human being. I would also repeatedly get blocked when I typed my password into the computer because I typed so fast, the computer believed I was a robot even though the password I used was correct.
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Yes, I’ve seen this pattern often with clients and a bit in my own life.
A few ideas that help:
1. Separate envy from your worth. Their reactions reflect their insecurity, not a flaw in you.
2. Choose your environments carefully. Look for circles (clubs, online forums, advanced classes, workplaces) where high performance is normal, even celebrated.
3. Dial visibility, not ability. You don’t need to hide your talent, but you can be strategic about how and when you show it.
4. Protect your assets. Back up work, lock belongings, use password managers.
You’re not the problem; your context probably is.