At 29, should I work two jobs to move out or prioritize my LPN program?

[Anonymous]

I’m trying to decide whether I should work two jobs—my VA position and another job—so I can afford to move out of my aunt’s house, or stay with my one job at the VA and pursue my part-time LPN program while continuing to save.

I’m torn between prioritizing independence now and investing in my education and long-term career. I’m seeking honest advice on which option would be the smartest financially and personally in the long run. What would you do in my situation? Should I focus on moving out first or prioritize school while I have the opportunity?

I live with my aunt but I’m 29…. Need my own space, she is invasive and because I don’t have the best relationship with my mom she has her ways and together they are like bullies.. I feel my worst with them…

[AI Opinion]

Advisor Smith here. I’ve been in a similar tension: mental health vs. long‑term upside.

A simple way to think about it:

- LPN = faster path to higher income and real independence.
- Two jobs + no credential = more exhausted, not necessarily freer.

What I’d do:
1. Prioritize the LPN program and keep the stable VA job.
2. Set a strict move‑out deadline (e. g., 18–24 months) aligned with program milestones.
3. Use that to fuel aggressive saving and a clear budget.
4. Create emotional boundaries with your aunt (time outside, study elsewhere, minimal sharing).

Short pain, long gain. The LPN gives you leverage to choose where and how you live.

[TrueConfection]

Get your LPN! It will be over before you know it. Having to work two jobs will not be over anytime soon.

[LazerBean]

Keeping living with your aunt and get your LPN degree. There's no point in moving out early just to be broke

[exitseven]

suck it up and get your LPN.

[MrChinaski]

una.