The Truth Behind Being An Exotic Dancer (Page 2)

[sensible27]

I don't understand the reasoning behind why people do it. Is dancing, constantly and as a job fun? I'd assume it's very energy intensive apart from coming up with it's own drawbacks I would have thought people would just want to do other things for the same energy they put into it.

[Aerissa_Jade]

I love to dance, it is fun. It can get very tiring which is why we take breaks and have rotations.

[sensible27]

Doesn't it get repetitive? Do you play on doing it till 20 years later

[Aerissa_Jade]

Actually if you read the whole thing, you'll see I've been out of it for a bit. I have a boring day job now for a decent company with good benefits. Can't say I won't go back but for now I'm trying this, hoping to try the family life and find Mr. Right and have kids and the next time I go a club like this will be to take my husband.

[Anonymous]

Wow--thanks! Great MyTake. Question for you though--how has the game changed since apps and the interwebs have made it SOOOO much easier to get access to REALLY hot girls? I'm not even just talking about Tinder for a "Netflix and Chill" session, but even connecting with a hot girl who does naughty massages. Like, instead of paying $300 for a 20 minute lapdance with no touching, you can pay the same or less for a 90 minute massage with a fully naked hot chick and a happy ending. That's got to be bad for business, no?

[wankiam]

thank you for the insight. a lot of great points raised for those who might be thinking of entering the adult entertainment industry

[ShadezMcgee]

Good take. A lot of points in here for guys just making the plunge into the strip club world.

Used to visit them back in the day. Learned how to talk with women better by going there.

[Satyromaniac]

An eye opener, thank you for that, I wish you and all the others in your profession best of luck for the future, and thanks a lot for your seductive service 🙂

[howhigh420]

I mite be chubby but i dance sexy all the time nd send my boyfriend the vids is piss easy i mite be chubby but av still got the fkn moves awl tell you

[loveslongnails]

Pole dancing is a talent, I agree. But I can't think of a bigger waste of money than lap dances where the guy can't touch the girl. "Some" girls who work at strip clubs will do sex work on the side - that's a given. A buddy of mine used to get bj's from one after she finished her shift. Might not be the norm, but it happens.

I never saw the point of going to a strip club with a group of guys where all you can basically do is "watch". All it does is get you horny as fuck and frustrated. Take the $200 each guy ends up spending, pool it together, and hire some gorgeous call girls and a hotel room !! :-D

[Aerissa_Jade]

Yeah those that took offers would do it at 5am or the next day, no one wanted to leave after paying to perform.

Some ended up not showing up the next day, cause they were in jail. There was always a chance a LEO was trying to trick you.

[genericname85]

nobody is questioning the physical fitness and skill needed to be an exotic dancer. but hat doesn't mask the fact, that its still the act of "whoring your body out to random people" even though you do not have sex with people.

it is making money, with people that are horny for yo and i think that deserves every bit of bad reputation it gets.

[exitseven]

Really good MyTake. i have only been to strip clubs a few times in my life and I never really thought about it.

[patrick677]

True its a normal work but its more in the category of erotic, and 100% of guys to see such girls we all know 100% what they wanted, and you dance and they give you money... I think lot of the girls that do this for passion finish doing escort because women like easy money nowadays.

[Jamie05rhs]

Very well-written take. Thanks for sharing.
Yes, I disagree with all of this, but I'm not going to be an asshole and pick on you on your own post.

[Cowboy6666]

I always appreciate and see girls doing pole dancing.
I have watched lap dancing too
but I am big fan of pole dancing mostly
by the way Nice explanation

[legalboxers]

I dropped $1000 and she let me do everything.. hell it was my birthday and she had fun with me.. Sad to say... I lost my virginity to her...

[elizamichale1]

how is it sad though

[legalboxers]

@elizamichale1 I dont know. I mean, she wanted me to come again to the place of work to see her, she wouldn't date me, wouldn't do anything.. she just wanted the money..

[cookiecrusher]

It's still sex work.

You are selling sexual excitement. Especially during lapdances, rubbing against some guy.

It takes effort to maintain body and skill, like any most other fields of professions and comes with health and mental risks, just like other fields.

Do it if it makes you happy and decent money and are willing to accept the concequences of that trade.

[AJenkins]

I'm a sociology student learning about the exotic dancing and your post has helped me a lot understand the industry. I have to write a research paper about a group which society labels as a deviant and this post really helped layout the norms and rules of the industry. Would you possibly be interested in some additional questions I have?

Thanks! Art

[Xtendable]

I can't believe I didn’t read this before. Very explanatory

[moviedude714]

One of my friends from middle school, admitted to me he lost his virginity by paying a stripper at a strip club

[Anonymous]

Wow, those people are wasting their money. I've had very attractive strippers offer to come back to my hotel room for $400. I would not pay $80 for someone to take their top off.

[Aerissa_Jade]

Where was this at, curious? it various on location price and cost.

[Opinion Owner]

Miami several years ago. But I think she was kind of attracted to me so not sure everyone got that offer.

[Aerissa_Jade]

Thanks, not sure how it works there, but $80 was not enough for a room full of 20 guys... soon as you take it off, tips slow or stop... have to get the most you can.

Like I said though, if it was just one guy, the amount could be less. I did have one guy, who looked nervous once and I took it off for 50 and the rest for another 50, when there was about 4 minutes left. This way he could watch for 4 minutes, no one else around.

I personally didn't like the gawkers, the non tippers who come in and wait for someone else to tip then they stared.

[Opinion Owner]

Most places I've been there is a center stage where one girl at a time does a totally nude dance. Afterward two songs she goes around and asks for tips from the spectators, usually just a buck or two each, while asking if they want a private dance where their real money is. Meantime the next girl starts on stage.

[Aerissa_Jade]

I heard policy has changed because of gawkers now, and that is what they are doing, in a lot of Clubs, going around and asking.

[Opinion Owner]

I haven't been to one since Covid; has that changed things?

[JennieF]

When I was younger, I briefly thought I might do this.

[bowenw]

Thank you for sharing this.