How do actors not fall in love with each other?

Question

Like they kiss, hold hands, and tell each other sweet things and they don't fall for each other in real Life.

ChiTown33 · Accepted Answer

What do you mean a lot of them do get together when they're filming
Look what happened to Brad and Angelina for example.
But it's important to keep in mind rhey're actors and actresses's, they pretend, they're empty vessels channeling a persona which is why they seldom last in relationships i'd imagine.

hansukota · Accepted Answer

Because while they are doing, its on front of camera and at least a dozen people all talking and all. Plus, you can't fall in love only by kissing and holding hands. As for saying stuff, they know it not honest. Most actors burst out laughing at the dialogue once the scene is shot

311WasAnInsideJam · Accepted Answer

Because they do that for minutes a day over the course of a few months for money.

Kinda like asking "how could you work in an office all day and not love fax machines?"

Yeah, some people probably fucking love fax machines. But most of them are indifferent. Just part of the job.

btbc92 · Accepted Answer

They all have sex with each other. That's how it goes in that industry. Look it up. You'd hate watching another film again.

Tylord92 · Answer

It's called acting. It takes a lot more than just going through the motions and doing romantic things to fall in love with someone. Love isn't a virus. You're not going to get infected with it and automatically fall in love just by kissing someone or holding someone's hand. And those sweet things they tell each other in movies are part of a script. They're being paid to say things that other people have written for them.

fauchelevent · Answer

They have a script so they know that all the sweet nothings are written by someone else and not actually what their on screen partner is thinking. Plus romantic scenes are done with a bunch of other people around and lighting and cameras and stuff so it's not like it feels real

Anonymous · Answer

Same way people can have casual sex and not get attached! It boggles the mind, especially when it's really intimate as it's only human nature to become somewhat attached to the person, but, somehow some people can do it, and do it well. I think it's easier for movies/tv, because it's only a short amount of time they do it for, but ongoing casual sex with someone and not become attached... I don't get that. Some people are just stone with no feelings/emotions I guess?

TadCurious · Answer

For the most part they don't fall in love but there have been exceptions. Check me on this but didn't Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie start their thing while working on a film? But to your question, it's likely that doing some scenes while in character actually causes some emotions to bubble up that probably helps the actor play the part.

Megatrizzle · Answer

Sometimes they do, but it's a profession at the end of the day. They're there for a job and every relationship is treated as so. Plus, it's prolly hard to "fall in love" when you're repeating the same love scene hundreds of times often.

Billie_ · Answer

Some do.

It’s like how a prostitute can tell a man sexy things about himself but form no care for him because she’s getting paid. Same goes for actors. The things they say isn’t coming from their hearts, it’s coming from a script.

TripleAce · Answer

Actually often times they do Lol They probably just do it most of the times

VIVANT · Answer

Sometimes they do but that stuff alone won’t make you fall in love. You can continue to strongly dislike a person you do intimate thjnhs right. It’s acting 🤷‍♀️😊

JustJen · Answer

Why don´t actors who are cast as serial killers go out and kill people? Same reason. It´s just play pretend. Besides, you don´t automatically fall in love with someone because you kiss them.

I_smell_Ducky · Answer

They do. All the fucking time, then they get married and device like a year later when they realize it was just the character they liked. Why do you think Hollywood relationships are always changing?

chriscdi · Answer

well i think that when they fuck up and have to keep repeating it to make the movie it gets annoying and kinda ruins the chemestry they were having, its like you having a date and then repeating it like 20 times, you would be at that, i hope we never do this again state lol

Red_Arrow · Answer

Some do fall in love. A lot of that in Hollywood. And how do FBW’s not fall in love (at least the ones that don’t)?

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I think they take a Oath that they must abide by while they are acting together in a movie and that agreement is separate real relationship from doing it in a movie.

Love2Jackit · Answer

Remember they are actors. They know where 2 draw the line. Meaning what's real and what's not.

AspenShiver · Answer

There is crew all around them, with lighting and such, probably not very romantic.

tonicandgin · Answer

They could be pretending to like each other. Plus they know ahead of time what they have to do.

GraveDoll · Answer

The same way people fake love in real life. Once the show is over. time to move on.

MrOracle · Answer

They often do, which is why Hollywood marriages rarely last.

Onepiece_fan2000 · Answer

It takes a lot of discipline and focus to not fall for other actors

TonyMetal_86 · Answer

It's all made up and not real... i don't know if all the kisses are real... What kind of a stupid guy would marry an actress who got touched by every one else...

Sevenpointfive · Answer

a lot of actors are self-centered or in relationships that aren't publicized by hollywood. most relationships publicized are fake, especially if they are both in the movie.

UnknownGagsUser · Answer

Actors just acting.. it wasn't real feeling or anything

up_64 · Answer

I suppose it's easier to fake it when your whole job consists in being as fake as possible as well as possible.

Rambler221 · Answer

Sometimes they do... And other form that, actors generally associate those actions with their characters. It helps to separate their feelings from their jobs.

AynonOMouse · Answer

They often do. They cheat on their partners after filming with someone else and break up.

Clarke498 · Answer

They sometimes do, but there's a long process to enter a character, so they aren't kissing the actor.

-Asca- · Answer

You don't just fall in love with anyone you kiss and tell sweet things what the hell? How do you think love works?

DECENTSCOTTISHLAD999 · Answer

They don't have a connection they learn about not falling in love when they go to acting school as life is an act

scooogy · Answer

In "How I met your mother" Alysson Hannigan had her spouse starring as well

Likes2drive · Answer

It’s all good acting but it does happen like with Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie on Mr and Mrs Smith

JimboGB · Answer

Because they dont necessarily lust over each other forget love one another.

Hurdleez-Swampede · Answer

Because it is acting for a reason. They are good at their jobs. Actors are paid to act.

Anonymous · Answer

They often do. I mean the biggest love triangle of all time or well, in my opinion, is Jenn Aniston, Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt

OceanVibess · Answer

Becouse they can dettach themselfes from those situations... some may even have home someone sweet and just think at that person while kissing another actor or whatever.

Twenty2 · Answer

They talk things through! You wouldn't believe how cool the world behind the screen is.

Mcluven · Answer

I would also like to know. At times I do get to attached to people so its good I am not a actor

Victor1212 · Answer

Because they are actors. I mean playing the reel life not the real.

TooHot2Care · Answer

Bro. It’s just kissing on the job. It’s not that deep.

Anonymous · Answer

Their characters are not the same as them in real life

Jonny59 · Answer

strong woman do bong i watched the whole kdrama

Secret6620 · Answer

Some do. All the time. 🎬📽️🍿

answerALLquestions · Answer

Its almost like theyre acting!

Jordanx3 · Answer

Professionalism? And sometimes they do...

Wowgirl30q · Answer

Acting guy or girl Is probably pamr

Lance1965 · Answer

Because they are acting.

sasukeuchiha7 · Answer

They're vacating, they know they're acting.

DDpsy · Answer

It happens to plenty of them.

PrettyRegular · Answer

They can act several different emotions.

Nahid1707 · Answer

Yeah but they just do the scene like it’s normal

constant_freeflow · Answer

Good question, maybe they are polygamous

ivanhunterjo · Answer

because it's their job to act

Izumiblu · Answer

They do quite often

Hurlyburly · Answer

Some actually do.

gothbxtch · Answer

they do sometimes

camonday · Answer

They are good actors

worldscolide · Answer

sometimes they do

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know.

gym4ever · Answer

probably they do.

blondfrog · Answer

Sometimes they do.

alexanderdelarge · Answer

They are just acting

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