Strip club or Burlesque?

[Jesslin412]

Eric has never seen the movie Burlesque. I was shocked! It’s similar to Coyote Ugly. 30 minutes in to the movie he’s not even watching. Wtf! How can you not watch those girls. Even I think they are sexy! It’s teasing! He said he can tell a woman wrote this movie. That there is no way in Los Vegas a guy is going to choose this over naked girls. Is that true? I’m sorry but naked girls is just gross. I think that’s seeing too much of your bday suit. I think the sexy dancing and clothing is way cuter. And add the costumes and singing 10/10! What do you guys say? Be honest! If strip clubs are more popular my mind is going to be blown! 🤯

Strip club

Burlesque

[ChiTown33]

Neither. Strip clubs really exist for one reason it something a group of guys can get together and go to and say yeah i'll take her, her, her and oh her. But in real life that's pure fantasy. It's the illusion that she's so into you lol. There's an old saying i heard once about strip clubs "You're going to get F***ed at a strip club but you're not going to get laid. Lol
Sorry i prefer to live in reality.
As for Burlesque, some do go fully nude but they use those feather looking things lol. So it's more about dancing, the art, teasing. I can see how women would have a deeper appreciation for it.
Your husband may be older than you but he's still young. Most young guys would want to get straight to the point.

[Obtuse]

Strip club for me but not because of the nudity, but because of the drinking. When I went to strip clubs, it wasn't with the main intent of seeing girls. It was to hang out with my buds, have some drinks, good times. The girls are like a "pleasant background". :-D

If there was a "burlesque bar" instead of a show, that would be more interesting to me. I might like it even better. But I just want to sit down and have some drinks with friends and be able to talk and get a bit rowdy clashing mugs.

[EnglundUberAlles]

That sounds great but aren't drinks super expensive in strip clubs? I'm just asking.

[Obtuse]

@EnglundUberAlles I haven't been that often except in the US, but it was something like $7-$8 for a cocktail like a Jack Coke compared to regular bars which were often around $5-$6. Not that much more at least in the ones I went. Where I think guys often spend a boatload of money is on lapdances which can be like $20+tip for some 4 minute song -- I avoid those.

[Dazed0N0Confused]

I love Burlesque! Went to a live show and I fell in love!

[Anonymous]

Strip clubbb sisssss🤪🤪I feel asleep watching Burlesque

[Jesslin412]

Really? Man that’s so sad! I must be the weirdo

[Opinion Owner]

meh, i don't think it's sad for someone to have a different opinion than you.

[leonidas69]

Not everyone likes the same stuff. Honestly if they're the choices I'm pretty dissapointed. If I wanted to hear music I'd not be concerned with the visuals of burlesque, seeing a real musician would be better. I am not a fan of being teased so burlesque is boring and strippers are worse. I prefer to do the teasing. Take me to the whore house. 😂

[Jesslin412]

Hahaha omg!

[TonyMetal_1986]

Actually i hate both, as long as i'm not getting anything from them, then i'm not goinf to watch them, they just take your money and laugh at you!

I think a wife can give a good show to her husband, at least in the end, both will receive the benefits and FOR FREE 😉

[Jesslin412]

Thanks! I wish I could give a show. He says I’m sexy and cute but I don’t think he seems me like that. Like SEXY. ☹️ I was really horny last night and he was tired then horny this morning and snuggled up to him and then woke up alone. Not been a great day so far 😕

[TonyMetal_1986]

Well don't know what to say, have a conversation with him miss jesslin, he's your husband and you must tell him everything about your feelings and the things that's going on inside your head so that he knows how your feeling, at least he can have the opportunity to fix things.

A husband and a wife should always be ready for sex except if they are suffering from something harsh which prevents them from sex...

The man always gets sex from his wife and anytime he wants if the wife is not suffering from something, so a husband must take it into consideration when his wife needs sex from him...

Talk to him! And be happy again 😊

[Jesslin412]

I’ve talked to him 🙄

[TonyMetal_1986]

What happened, did it work well?

[Jesslin412]

It works for like a day then same ol same

[TonyMetal_1986]

You need to make a lasting compromise with him...
Marriage should be worked by both sides...

I hope he understand this, in the end no one will love him and take of him like his wife and same thing goes for the wife...

[TremorJay]

I've never been to a strip club and never plan to go. I grew up with free internet porn, so if I'm going to pay to see something, it better have more entertainment value than tits and ass on a pole.

Burlesque is too old fashioned for my taste, but maybe something similar would be fun to watch. Talented women a sexy as hell, and I do like the outfits.

[foxrider77]

I’d appreciate both. See girls in costumes dancing would get me excited. Then after that I’d enjoy the strip club so we could get more personal. Nothing beats a girl dancing in her lingerie then she comes sits on your lap for some company, then getting a dance in the back with her.

[MannMitAntworten]

I’m not interested in either but you ur response does illustrate the point your boyfriend made about what you were watching being made by a woman versus a man... your thinking paralleled the movie versus the reality of what your boyfriend pointed out.

[theCobbler]

Hands Down, BURLESQUE! Because it leaves a sexy, mystery as to what the Lady looks like naked! I've only ever been to 2 strip clubs & didn't like them " wanna tip me for my dance?: wanna 20 dollar couch dance? : ? etc. " If I'm going to spend that kind of money ... I'd better be getting. Laid !

[motownplayer2000]

You are definitely a woman.. most men don't care about how cute a woman is dressed or that she can dance or put on a show. And they definitely dont think naked woman are gross. So usually for the average guy. They would probably pick a strip club

[Jesslin412]

Oh how crazy different men and woman are. This blows my mind

[Can_I_Get_a_Do-Over]

@Jesslin412 I love the differences between men and women - mind and body.

[motownplayer2000]

Lol this is very true

[Guardian45]

I'm afraid your friend was correct. Guys are a pretty horny bunch and will almost ALWAYS a pick a strip club over a burlesque show. Me included. Think of this, burlesque is like paying a higher price to eat steak, when you can go to your favorite hamburger place and eat 10 hamburgers for the price of one steak! Most men are carnivores, so its quantity over quality.

[EnglundUberAlles]

Burlesque is just striptease without the nudity. In olden times nudity wasn't permitted so they had burlesque. Now that nudity is permitted burlesque has become more sophisticated and it's aimed mostly at women. Guys just want nudity, straight and dirty.

Movies like Burlesque and Coyote Ugly are kinda gay tbh. Guys would rather watch Pornhub.

[TadCurious]

I agree with your husband on this. Guys in Vegas would rather see completely naked strippers.

[Apple1996]

Definitely more into strip clubs! I like getting dances from the girls 😛

[Anonymous]

Do you know that burlesque shows have nudity? They get fully naked as they have pasties on merkins on...

[Jesslin412]

Well I’m talking specifically about the movie

[Opinion Owner]

The movie was trash tbh. If you want a better movie about burlesque dancing, you should watch Showgirls. It's much better.

[Jesslin412]

Thanks

[cheapshotbob]

strip club too many guys pretending to be girls are in those burlesque shows they ruin it every time.

[pervertedjester]

A Girl's dance recital or Women stripping to Rock anthems?

... Text me when the recital is over.

... Might reply.

... Oh No, phones aren't allowed.

... K, Bye.

[Finchie40]

I’m going to say strip clubs considering I have no desire to watch that movie lol

[hansukota]

Burlesque is sexy intimidating and frankly teasescand gives guys blue balls. But many enjoy the way it goes about. But some guys just prefer direct nudity. No patience or hate that kind of shit..

[Sevenpointfive]

strip clubs have prettier girls and you pay for their talent off the stage

[Guardian45]

Succinct

[Sevenpointfive]

@Guardian45 i honestly go to the female male reviews in britain and sit in the back. when they all get riled up i strip off my clothes. and join in the fun. those British women love sucking cock so much!

[WalterBlack]

Both have their appeal. Depends on my mood and the occasion.

[MackToday]

I don't know I've never been to either and I have no interest in either. I find the whole thing weird and disgusting.

[MysteriousDarkness]

Burlesque is a classier striptease than the stereotypical stripper. With burlesque they put on a show which is cool. I would rather see a burlesque show than stereotypical stripper at some strip club

[jamesgoldman]

I'd opt for the burlesque but I am not really a sexual being and I am both somewhat eccentric and would like to be perceived as a man of culture

[Aaron_Stone]

I don't like lighting you can't even see the details in strip club. Also there is no elegance.
I haven't gone there. Judging by videos.

[Anonymous]

Wait, the girls at least get their tops off in Burlesque, no?

[Jesslin412]

Talking about the movie.

[Opinion Owner]

Haven't seen it. Does it have a lot of nudity? Also are you asking if guys would rather see a movie about Burlesque versus going to an actual strip club or are you asking if, after seeing the movie, a guy would rather go to a live burlesque show versus a strip club?

[Jesslin412]

I’m asking how he doesn’t see the movie sexy

[Opinion Owner]

Got it. I haven't seen the movie, but is there a lot of nudity in it? Are the actresses really hot?

[Jesslin412]

There is no nudity. It’s the teasing act. They are naked but behind something or they smack their butt but have clothes on

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, okay--that's probably why your guy wasn't too impressed. In actual burlesque as I understand it, the women at least get fully topless and are often really well endowed and will do things like boob-dancing tricks.

[NorthwestRider]

Are you one of those religious nuts who gets triggered by something natural

[crazy8000]

If I must choose. Burlesque.

Not really in to any of that sort with strangers.

[allenwants2]

Well I'm a firm believer in one leads to another and this is what it is before love. Came to town

[MrTaboo]

Neither, I dont liked to be teased. It really pisses me off.

[Lynx122]

I've never been to either and idc.

[Curmudgeon]

Who is Eric? They guy in your picture?

[Can_I_Get_a_Do-Over]

@Jerre nice, that warms a girl’s heart, Jerre.

[Anonymous]

he's not open to new stuff I guess. Oh well.

[ConfusedOfTheWorld]

Neither, not into such stuff

[gingertortilla]

why not both?

[Jerre]

Neither one captures my attention

[Jesslin412]

What does?

[Jerre]

A girl undressing in my house will attract me and give me a hardon

[najekim]

Both can be fun. But in person, not on film IMHO

[jimmy2]

Tease is very good.. naked is naked

[Cryptic-Game]

I'd rather go to the strip club.

[Numbnuts89]

Burlesque!

[NickiB1]

neither