It used to make me smile when a girl messaged me, but in my own experience,... either she is interested in me and she's making that effort to connect with me further in depth and she wants her and I to romantically connect and be a couple long term,... or for the most unfortunate part (especially in my own experience)... she is interested in me and wants to be romantically involved in my life... but at the same time I'm also thinking,.."Yeah,.. but for how long? a few days? a few weeks? a few months? and then what? You drop your interest in me and move on? Fuck that!"
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When I was young then yes. But as I have gained experience I know that female attention is only there as long as you are doing something for them. So you are paying for attention. Most of the time, I expect a response so I dont really care.
Yep, it is cute, especially if it's from a friend who you are close with, even better if it's your boyfriend or husband. Extra points if they use heart emojis.
I smile when my friends text me. Online, school or best friend.
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Depends who, really.
Some girls I let wait a couple of minutes otherwise they start expecting replies too quickly.
Some girls have me going "Ohhh, how is she? 😊"
Some girls have me going "😏 What's she sending this time? 😏"
Some people I don't even reply.
It really depends.Depends on who, if it is someone I like as a friend or more then yes I smile when they come in.
I usually only feel like that when a girl writes something nice or cute but not all the time ^^
Text messages mean nothing to me. I'd rather a phone call or the person actually meeting up with me. Those things take effort. Text messages are lazy and meaningless.
Yes, I am smiling while reading the messages of the person whose messages I look forward to, which warms my heart. 💙
Yes, cause it's cute but I get butterflies when a girl text messages me, I'm really shy deep down.
It fades and can't let it get to your mind too much. But I remember just a like on a pic I post was like life changing
When my husband sends me a random text it tells me he is thinking about me. ❤️
Doesn't happen and even if it did, it's not like they have an interest in me.
I have friends. They are of all different genders. They all make me smile when texting me.
Depends on who it is from lol
It makes me cautious.
It depends on what they said in their text.
I think i have passed that age 😂
Only if I have romantic feelings for them
Ah... I remember those days.
Yeah I get that too 😊
Yes! Because it's cute!
I think its good to hear from lots of people.
Yeah 😊
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