Fetes and parties. Why pay to dance to music, or are you paying to be around strangers who may not interact with you? Socializing or showing off?

[LovingLoverReturned]

What is it that appeals to you. You want to snap a picture or is it about social status "I attended this event".

Since humans are social creatures, it makes sense but I know each individual had their own personalized reason.

I love music and dance but can't see myself paying to do that with strangers. I want to understand why you like it.

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[razelove]

Well, I can get wasted and sing Johnny boy and dance till falling down with my friends. The advantage to a party or event is anonymity. I can go to say a rave or event and flirt around, with the only protection I need being a fake name.

As to why other people do what they do, or the obsession with selfies for every mood, meal, and occasion, every person has their own goals and desires, which are beyond me. Anyway, I'm getting too old for that scene regardless.

What are the "fetes" you speak of?

[LovingLoverReturned]

A fete is a party or celebration... French derived word

[Anonymous]

That's a fair question, I don't like dancing as well I can't but would actually like to learn if I had a partner.

But I see your point it costs to get into night clubs and well I've been once and it was horrible. Bright lights that blind you, music so loud you can feel it all through your body, people so close they keep brushing against you. It was a nightmare, I e joyed the company of friends but that was. it.

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe it's something like kinda like how adrenaline junkies like what they do. There is some sort of chemicsl thing in the body they want either knowing or unknowingly.

Or. magbr just very extraverted and helps them recharge.

Sorry for. not. puting. yhis. in the response I lost my train of thought.

[Waldoe]

Nothing is free... good music has to be paid for by someone... NOTHING is ever free...

[LovingLoverReturned]

Free for me it is. Maybe not for you... but for me ya

[ArtemisSilver]

I prefer small intimate gatherings where I can actually get to know people, and crack a few jokes.

[baserunner611]

Explain more information

[LovingLoverReturned]

You do that.

[baserunner611]

I go to enjoy myself way too much, but the last stranger I danced with was a total nut job, and the other was an escort. No thank

[LovingLoverReturned]

You don't enjoy yourself for free , play music and dance with friends? Or is it a place for those without friends?

[baserunner611]

In Knoxville, there is a road called the strip. So some medical students wanted to drink a little bit, and we got to this Bar only to find out that five of us guys, so we started dancing with three women and one tell me. For $400, I can take her home for the night. Another guy got a call from one of the women who was told she had nude pictures of him. It was another guy, Micheal would framer hang it on his wall

[Anonymous]

i dont pay...