Am I an asshole for watching a mom vlogger just for her body?

[Anonymous]

There is a YouTube belonging to an Arab Lady. The lady is a mother of two children and a housewife.

The channel's content is very innocent on the Surface, Just cooking and cleaning videos with a live stream every now and then where she discusses woman stuff and mom stuff.

Now me being a man I am definitely not the target audience for her videos. However despite this majority of her viewers and commenters are men like me.

That because while her videos are lame, one thing that makes her videos worth watching is a h0t momb0d.

She had literally some of the h0ttest milk sacks and cakes I have ever seen. Like despite being a average housewife, her physique is h0tter than most Models and cornstars.

Her chest makes every morning Arabic video worth watching.

I am unsure if she is aware that the reason her channel has almost 20K subscribers despite pathetic production quality is because her giant b00bs.

However personally I am a bit conflicted about this viewing preference of mine.

On one hand by watching her content for her body I contribute in supporting her channel through which despite being a house wife she makes money for her kids.

But in the other hand this isn't an actress or a model. This is someones mother who is making videos for her kids. She is also a very religious Muslim woman so I feel guilty for objectifying this random woman on the internet by my eyes and feel selfish for enjoying her body.

Am I the a$$hole?

[Smart_Monk]

This is hilarious.

But i will interject one analogy to push an esoteric lesson.

Our boners are like trees. It's awesome when trees grow big. But be careful where you plant it.

Plus consider that 99% of the 15-20% of suitable area is not your private property.

If you were an orbiting satellite and could just drop a tree seed whenever it feels pleasurable, you end up losing your precious seed 99.999999999% of the time, you will never see its fruits or be even there to water the tree and cover it from frost in the first place.

The seed is not a euphemism for coom. It is what many people call chi/prana. You lose it by merely fantasizing. The actual coom expulsion is inconsequential since it is merely a side effect, it's the uncontrolled lust that drains your soul, and without lust you quit being a coomer. Whilst, simply quitting being a coomer doesn't stop lust.

Actually using your heart destroys lust. Imagine that your heart is a penis, then fuck every hot ass you want. That's what will save your soul from death after death.

What i said is a joke about a non-joke. ㅤ

[Asker]

What?

[Mike_Hum]

she doesn't care, she's getting money from your iews.

[Asker]

Yeah but she is a religious Muslim mother. Would she really be ok if she knew men like me watch her shitty videos just so we can stare at her boobs and large butt? Are these things big deals in their culture?

[Mike_Hum]

of course, that's the point of the video.

[Asker]

You think she is doing it on purpose?

[Asker]

Are you there?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

You’re not an asshole, you’re a misogynist openly objectifying a woman for personal sexual fantasy purposes. You’re what’s called a perverted, sexist pig.

[Asker]

I am not a misogynist, I don't hate her. I just like watching her for how she looks. It's not my fault her cloths can't properly cover her bust

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

So misogyny doesn’t mean pure hatred. In the same way homophobia is not an actual fear, misogyny is the bias against women and whether you agree with it or not, the actions you have taken here lean into sexual objectification, which is an act that shows a bias against women. Then you also make a point to blame her for your desire to see her body and have sexual fantasies as if this woman is somehow personally catering her videos to your specific desires for the sole purpose of tempting you, when in reality she doesn’t even know your name. This is also a very misogynistic response to blame the woman for “tempting” the man into “sin.” Remember that you asked for opinions on this, you knew the response would be inherently negative. I don’t know why you’re surprised about this outcome.

[Asker]

Ok so here is my point. This lady claims to be a religious Muslim mother. Fine.

However majority of her audience are MEN.

While she doesn't wear anything revealing. Even her Burqa does hide the shape of her body and curves due to how heavy she is.

Now my question is. Does she not know that her lose cloths are sufficient to completely conceal her breasts? Does she not know that the loose dresses still aren't loose enough for her?

Yet she still films herself and posts it online. Does she in your opinion doesn't have the slightest clue why randomly out of no where thousands of men would watch her low productions cooking videos? And mother story time videos?

[Asker]

Mind you she speaks Pure Arabic but her audience are English speaking men.

Isn't that a head scratter? Unless we count the obvious explaination.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

You’re still blaming her for how you feel, as if anyone but you has any control over that. You being muslim just explains why you hate women.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

It’s ironic too, because I do believe the Quran openly disapproves of such behavior. When the Prophet Muhammed was with his cousin during Haji and a young woman came to ask Mohammed a question, he noticed that his cousin kept staring after the girl even as she left. Instead of openly shaming the woman, denouncing her beauty, or saying she was an avatar of evil, he turns his cousin’s head away. He does this because he knows the girl was not the problem and not the source of any evil, but only that his cousin could be tempted to evil. His cousin was the problem, not her. Musnad Ahmad 1348

[Asker]

I said she was Muslim, read it again

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Okay, so you’re admitting to a hijabi fetish? Or just admitting this is your onlyfans substitute? If you’re ashamed of your behavior, you can stop watching at any time.

[Asker]

Not really into Hijabis, her burqa has nothing to do with her being Hot. I do think this is my Onlyfans substitute.

I am not ashamed of my behavior. I am just confused if she is doing this intentionally or unintentionally.

If she is a sIut at heart and she knows why we men watch her and teases us then I have zero regrets infact I would happily promote her channel.

However if she is oblivious and doesn't know why she is getting so much viewership and is genuinely a innocent Muslim mother then I feel guilt.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

We can’t predict her intentions anymore than you can. If you want to blame her for making you horny, we’re all going to say that’s a you problem, not a problem caused by her

[Asker]

I don't see anything wrong with her using her Sexuality to provide for her kids as long as she is doing it by her own choice.

The only solution I think is that I should leave a obvious comment. If she ignores or deletes it then she should be left alone. If she likes and reacts then thart means she is into it.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Or maybe you should mind your own business instead of trying to call someone a slut

[Nikki1989]

I imagine you must have a few kangaroos loose in the old upper paddock, sir.

[Anonymous]

As far as I know, religious Muslim women don't show off their body... so your story is not very realistic.

[Asker]

She didn't show off her body. She wears Abaya. I am just saying that even in that her breasts seem very large hence I enjoy the content

[itsannalee]

It more sounds like you are pathetic

[Asker]

Why am I pathetic? Aren't I allowed to appreciate female beauty when I see it?

[itsannalee]

Your reply proved my point 😉

[Asker]

So women's bodies shouldn't be appreciated after she give birth? Or is this issue if the said Woman is Muslim? Or non white?

[In_Trance]

Seems like a giant waste of time to me

[Asker]

What is the waste of time? Watching that milf?