It's well known that men are the pursuers most of the time. We already don't have much of options like women, so every woman that you have great connection with, and looks good, it's an instinct to ask yourself questions about dating her. On the other hand, women have already more pursuers, so it's easier to switch people between a potential boyfriend to a friend.
So girls, when a friend asks you out, try to take it as a compliment, even if you are not interested. Because he understands your friendship and sees you as a good woman.
I am not saying that women should say yes to them all the time, but please try less to complain that "men only become friends with you because they want you".
Note: if a man befriends you only to have sex, it's a different story. It's not a friend, he is using you.
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I have 3 male online friends and neither one is interested in me. Which is fine, and then again we hardly talk. Cause they all have jobs.
You bearly talk and you have never seen them. It's different.
one thing is for sure... this is surely your individual point of view and experience, and not the one for all men
It's the first thing I wrote