Girls, do you like or dislike it when a guy cums quickly during a BJ?

[Anonymous]

It was my first time getting a BJ, she knew it too, I came in like a minute

[yintomyyang]

I love giving my bf head hahaha xD and he loves getting it

honestly thou, depends on the girl.
for me, I have a sense that I gave amazing BJ to make my bf come quick, but he likes to make it last long so he had me try different positions and new things to make him come.

I love hearing him tell me that he's about to come, prepares myself to swallow lol. Plus its a turn on :) just knowing that I'm that good and making him happy ^_^

bjs are messy lol, I wouldn't want my bf to come on my face >_< id rather swallow and continue to have fun lol.

yah, she was probably surprised, give her notice before u do next time lol!!!

[Anonymous]

I don't think it is necessarily a bad thing, like that way her neck won't start hurting. I know I definitely wouldn't want a guy to last more than like 15 minutes during that lol

[Asker]

LOL I was a little embarrassed

[Opinion Owner]

Don't be lol It's no big deal :)

[Asker]

she seemed kinda suprised when i came,

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah she probably was unless you warned her lol

[Asker]

lol i didn't know what to do, it was my first time, what was i supposed to do?

[Opinion Owner]

It depends on her, personally I would want my bf to warn me but I would tell him that before lol

[Asker]

just tell her im about to cum?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I think it would be less shocking for her that way :)

[Asker]

it kinda got all over her face

[Opinion Owner]

Oh wow that explains her surprise. Why not in her mouth?

[Asker]

just as i started cuming she pulled her head back

[Opinion Owner]

Oh ok, yeah next time I would just tell her you are about to so she doesn't do that and get it all on her face lol

[Asker]

do girls hate when that happens?\

[Opinion Owner]

It depends on the girl, some like it, some don't.

[Sunnyside14]

I like it long enough to have some fun with all his parts, but not long enough for me to get bored and annoyed that he has came yet

[Asker]

she was kinda tugging on my balls.. is that weird?

[Sunnyside14]

Well if you liked it no! Plus I'm sure she was only trying to make sure you like it!

[Asker]

it kinda hurt

[Sunnyside14]

Well then take a little control and tell her to be a bit more gentle or you could reach your hand to where hers is on your balls and use your hand to show her what you like

[Asker]

y'all know to handle balls with extreme care right?

[Sunnyside14]

Well yes, but being gentle with them and showing her, she could pleasure you more

[Anonymous]

it's probably 50/50 for a lot of girls

[hopromantic]

I like it! Means I dont have to wotk for too long ^_^

[Asker]

the girl seemed really surprised when i came lol

[hopromantic]

Ohh lol well as long as you dont when your actually having sex your good! :)

[knotme]

It really all depends on my objective. If im trying to make him cum fast then its a plus, if not minus. So, i will control it somewhat

[Asker]

why would u want it faster or slower?

[knotme]

If he is saying i cant, then its my duty to prove i can make him cum fast. I would want slow if we have not engaged in intercourse yet, or just to keep him on the brink of cumming

[Asker]

why would it matter if y'all were having sex?

[knotme]

If im blowing him before intercourse that's why it matters

[Asker]

ohhh i dont think she was gonna have sex with me lol

[knotme]

okay

[SaVes]

I usually edge for quite a while when I give a blowjob, so this has actually rarely ever happened to me.

[Asker]

what do u mean edge?

[SaVes]

The sexual act of delaying someone's orgasm for a longer period of time, by bringing them very close to the "edge" of orgasm, again and again, but never actually letting them reach it. In the end, when orgasm is eventually reached, it is accordingly more intense and prolonged.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Orgasm_control

[Asker]

oh lol, Im a virgin so i wouldn't know. but that sounds like ur giving him blue balls lol

[SaVes]

Well, you know about other sexual things too even though you haven't experienced them yourself yet. So that's not a logical reason. But yeah, I know it's not something everyone knows about. :)

Yes, blue balls that eventually lead to a very intense orgasm. You should give it a shot some time, you won't regret it.

[Asker]

i guess my problem was it happened so fast that it would be so hard to keep me on the edge lol

[SaVes]

I understand. And she would have needed to be really good at it too.

[Asker]

she tugged on my balls, is that how girls usually do it?

[SaVes]

There is no usually. Everyone does different things, whatever they prefer.

[Asker]

I kinda wish i had shaved first, she looked like she was a bit grossed out by my hair

[SaVes]

Where you at least trimmed?

[Asker]

no, how much should i shave? like the patch above the dick?

[SaVes]

You should shave and/or trimm as much as you personally want to. Whatever your preference is and feels best to you.

[Asker]

i just want girls to like it lol

[SaVes]

Well, then find out what she prefers.

[Asker]

she said she thought my balls were kinda hairy

[SaVes]

Well, then at least trimm them. Or shave.

[Asker]

it doesn't seem shave to take a electric razor to the balls lol

[SaVes]

You mean save? I would advice using a normal razor and do wet shaving.

[SaVes]

*advise

[Asker]

have u shaved a guys balls?

[SaVes]

Yes, but it's easier if you do it yourself, trust me.

[Asker]

seems a lot more fun if a girl did it, im guessing he was hard the whole time

[SaVes]

Well, you can always ask her to shave you.

[Asker]

seems a bit dangerous letting a girl handle my delicate parts like that lol

[SaVes]

That's why I said it's safer if you do it yourself.

[Anonymous]

Doesn't bother me. Plus if it was your first time than you were probably just excited. Chances are that you will start to go for longer.

[Asker]

so do u girls prefer longer?

[Opinion Owner]

I don't think it really matters too much. I'm not shocked that she was surprised tho. She probz thought that you would go for longer. Its nothing to be embarrassed about. Like I said it was your first time and you were probably just really excited.

[Asker]

it kinda got all over her face

[Opinion Owner]

Niiiiiice! :p

[Anonymous]

I'd prefer that to be honest, my boyfriend thinks its a fucking endurance test.

[heather970]

That's perfect to swallow it 🍦😉

[Asker]

why?

[heather970]

It's just delicious 😋

[Francisco_v69]

Haha SOMEBODY likes to swallow cx

[heather970]

Who? 😀😀😀

[Annymous8]

It wouldn't bother me.

[Asker]

I was a little embarrassed because I think I did it way faster than she expected

[Annymous8]

Seeing as it was your first time, you were probably excited. It gets annoying when some guys take too long to cum.

[Asker]

but is it bad that i didn't say anything? i think i caught her offgaurd?

[Annymous8]

She knew it was your first time, so it's not bad that you didn't.

[Asker]

it kinda got all over her face

[Annymous8]

Oh. How did she react, just surprised?

[Asker]

yeah she was wiping it off her cheek

[Annymous8]

Did she say anything?

[Asker]

not rreally

[Annymous8]

Maybe she was expecting an apology. I would like it.

[Asker]

u would like a guy to cum in ur face?

[Annymous8]

Yeah.

[Anonymous]

Like! BJs make our jaws and mouths sore.

[Asker]

i thought girls liked when we took longer

[Opinion Owner]

That has to do with intercourse.

[Asker]

is it normal for her to tug on my balls during it?

[Opinion Owner]

Sure. If you don't like it, just mention you'd prefer something else.

[Asker]

it felt good until she tugged a little hard

[Opinion Owner]

She's probably still learning too.

[Asker]

but girls know about balls right? like they are sensitive?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, but she may not realize with tugging as it's different than slapping/hitting.

[Anonymous]

I love it cause it means I'm doing a good job

[Asker]

even if it only takes 1m? i was a bit embarrassed

[Anonymous]

It wouldn't bother me at all

[Asker]

i thought girls liked guys to last long

[Opinion Owner]

It just depends I can make my boyfriend last for a long time or I can make him cum in 5 min lol it all up to me

[Asker]

how do u do that?

[Opinion Owner]

I am just good like that lol he gets really. Into it he says I give the best blow jobs he has ever had

[Asker]

lol she was tuggging on my balls alot, is that normal?

[Opinion Owner]

Some girls like to play with guys balls when there giving a blow job if u don't like it tell her

[Asker]

it felt good until she tugged a little hard

[Opinion Owner]

Just tell her to be gentle with you lol

[Asker]

lol be gentle? won't tht make me sound like a wimp

[Opinion Owner]

Umm how about u just tell her not to pull that hard cuz it don't feel good when she pulls hard

[Asker]

so thats not normal to do to the balls?

[Opinion Owner]

Its normal but if it hurts just tell her

[Anonymous]

It's fine. Makes my job easier lol.

[Anonymous]

Wow thats fast

[Asker]

so thats bad?

[Opinion Owner]

not bad its cute because (some) girls like beginners but its bad if you can't get it up afterwards when she wants to have sex

[Asker]

like immediately afterwards? cause i got soft right away

[Opinion Owner]

If it takes you more than 5 minutes to get it up that really sucks

[Asker]

get it up right after i came?

[Opinion Owner]

but masturbating often can help you last longer

[Asker]

soo i should try to last longer?

[Opinion Owner]

Well i dont know if you ejaculate after foreplay and can't get it up for the real thing its bad

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, try to last longer