13 year old boy hiding panties?

[darkslosh]

okay im 13 and my story is one day i found a pair of my friends thongs in the bathroom, we were going swimming in my pool in the backyard, and she left them there, i was curious, so i tried them on, and i was hooked, but my family is anti-gay, i love wearing panties because they are soo silky and slick and soft, but how can i hide them while im wearing them so that i dont get caught? Or how could i talk to them about it? also i am more or less rather the black sheep of the family, i can hardly call them my family, my mother wanted me put up for adoption at birth, my dad, he loves me but i dont get to see him often, and i dont know how he would feel about me being a transvestite, i dont want to make him feel like he has failed as a father because he let this happen to his son, but he's the only one in my family who at least trys to accept me for who i am and what i love, and another thing is, I don't know how i could bring up this topic with my mom, her and i have no relationship, and tbh, im really scared about what could happen to me if they do let me wear them, like will they tell my older brother and then he could blackmail me into doing things for him, and i also dont know what my little brother would make of it, he idolizes me and i dont want to skew him anymore than i already have, but please, HELP!!! ( all sex's are allowed to comment/PM me and all help is appreciated )

[minniemouse123]

well hun i think that they are your family and they should love you for who you are as a person not the way you dress or by the gender you love. the way you dress does not define you as a person, it doesn't make you any less of a man or person, the things you do make you who you are, and life experience. I am sure you are a lovely man kind hearted loving and funny, so i don't think that it defines you dear that you do these things such as wearing women's underwear. i mean in all honesty its underwear, no one sees it and no one would be able to tell, so it shouldn't matter, you should wear what makes you feel the best you can, confident, happy, and most importantly yourself. my advice is that if you are more comfortable with your dad maybe start by telling him. because if he really loves you he will accept you for you and will be proud to support you in your decision, i mean it doesn't mean he won't find it shocking and different, but he will get over it and be happy that your happy :) then when you think your ready tell the rest of your family, some may not love the decision but its not their life hun it's yours, so don't take any negative feed back to heart because your amazing just the way you are and you shouldn't have to hide yourself from the ones that are supposed to love you :)

i really hope this helps dear :) best wishes :)

[darkslosh]

well, they do tend to show a little bit, because i just can't wear pants, idfk why but i can't do it, not unless its -35 or below outside, but i wear gym shorts a lot and some gym shorts have holes in them and things and I don't know how to tell my dad, i mean, i think he feels like a failure of a father already because i have some issues with suicidal actions/thoughts ( which im getting much better about :) but, i mean he dosnt have anything against anyone, i just, I don't know how to bring it up with him, normally thats something you would talk to a girl about, or your mom, and also i dont want to confuse my little brother any more than i already have, and I don't know how my mom might react if she found out im doing it, i could very easily see her embarassing me in front of my whole family by doing something like forcing me to bend over and calling me a sissy boy or something crazy like that... :( sigh... i just dont know what to do, and can i PM u about some other things too?

[minniemouse123]

of course you can :) i am always open to listening :)

[Anonymous]

Since you said your dad is the one you are closest to in your family I would talk to him about it first, maybe start off with saying that you've been afraid to say what you are going to say but you really want to let him know. Tell him that you didn't know how to approach him about it at first which is why you didn't tell him sooner and maybe ask him not to tell anyone else yet because you aren't ready. Give him a few days or weeks to let it sink in because it's hard to understand and accept when you thought you knew someone and really didn't as much as you thought. After you've given him the time ask him to help you talk to your mom and maybe keep it from your brothers at first until you are comfortable enough that you aren't afraid of blackmail. I don't think it would be a bad thing for your younger brother to know about it because it will only make him more understanding of others feelings and differences in the future. On the topic of hiding them I always used to have to hide my smokes and I would put them somewhere high up where nobody ever looks for anything so maybe try that for hiding them or slide them under your mattress. Good luck!

[darkslosh]

thats not what i mean by hide, i mean like hide them on my body, sometimes i wear them around the house because they, I don't know they give me this feeling that i only get when im hugging or kissing a girl, they just excite me for some reason, and i like to wear shorts that have holes in them, and you can kinda see boxers through them, and the panties that i have are like a light green bikini or a baby blue cheekster or a bright pink thong, they stand out through my clothing, and i just dont know how my little brother would take it either, he's already confused enough because of me, and i wouldn't want to give him sexuality confusion on accident either, because it really messes with you, but do you have any other advice?

[Opinion Owner]

well as for hiding them on your body the best thing you could do is to not wear the shorts with holes. I also think that if you were to talk to your little brother about it and let him know that he can come to you with questions to clarify anything that is confusing him then he should be okay you're still pretty young so I get why you would be worried about it but in the end it will only make him a stronger and more empathetic person. If you are that worried about it though wait until he is older and tell him then.

[Pixie09]

I would like a little more information please.

So do you feel like you are gay?
Do you want to cross dress?
Are these feelings coming from wanting to wear silky thongs?

[darkslosh]

i sent you a private message :)

[Anonymous]

Well, you kind of owe it to your friend, who was wearing a thong at 13 (btw, I think she likes you, otherwise she wouldn't have worn a thong to your party or whatever it was) to return it to her. They're hers, not yours. What was she doing with them off anyway? The thing with wearing panties. Well, have you tried silkier men's underwear. The problem with women's underwear is that they're not allowing your dick to be the way it's supposed to be. You need to buy men's underwear that are specially made for us but that feel better than your usual ones. Try going online and looking for them. Anyway, you're not gay for wanting to wear them. You're gay if you're sexually attracted and emotionally attracted to the same sex. About telling your parents and brothers, you may as well because unless you do your own laundry, your mom is going to wonder who's underwear it is and it's better to just out and say it instead of her finding out on her own. Your brothers might see it too and wonder... so just tell your mom that you're experimenting with women's underwear because they feel better. She may even help

[darkslosh]

not my mom, she hates me, i do my own loads of laundry when nobodys home, her and i have never gotten along though, like she loves to humiliate people, and i already feel ashamed enough...

[drewbillini]

I started wearing thongs when I was like 12. Im straight, married but I love thongs. Its a kink tbh

[Anonymous]

Gay? Transvestite? Do you think I even knew what those things were when I was 13? Off topic, lol, but anyways when it comes to the underwear #1, throw away those panties, #2 talk to you mom about it first, I mean if the ones you have now are that bad have her buy you different ones. How about boxer shorts?

[Opinion Owner]

To make a long story short, there is more comfortable underwear out there you will probably like, throw away those panties and buy new underwear.

[darkslosh]

what are those? and me and my mother dont really have a relationship either, and if she found out, I don't know what she might do, for all i know she could make me go to school in them or something, i just dont know what to do :( and I don't know if im gay but i am kinda transvestite

[darkslosh]

and i have tried all the types of guys underwear/boxers, something just isn't right about the..

[Opinion Owner]

Like I said, at your age those gay/trans. terms didn't exist to me. Stop thinking about it,

ANYWAYS,
boxers=

www.amazon.com/.../ref=sr_nr_p_72_0

I mean wear whatever you like but obviously what underwear you have is uncomfortable to you.

[Opinion Owner]

Well maybe dont talk to your mom about it, but whoever can help you.

[darkslosh]

do you mean just only wear the few pairs or panties that i have? or shop for new boxers or something?

[Opinion Owner]

If you think womens underwear is more comfortable than what you got, then you need to throw ALL your underwear crap in the garbage and buy something else (for guys). Oh and by the way womens underwear is literally tailor made for women and can't be worn buy guys like us. Wearing girls panties should be hurting you down there, I dont know how its not.

[darkslosh]

they dont, thats why i wear them a little big thats why, and they still fit cuz i kinda have a girls butt, lol you have seen those tease's who have huge ass and tits but are still super skinny, well I've got those traits too, yeah, it sucks looking like you have small boobs when your a guy :(

[Opinion Owner]

To be honest dude, half the time I don't wear underwear at all and there is nothing more comfortable than that.

[hi23hi23hi]

umm ok you can do what i do with my weed i put in my air duct

[darkslosh]

thats not what i meant by hide, i mean hide them on my body, like the panties that i have are really bright colors that would stand out through my shorts :(

[Anonymous]

Lmao.
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Sorry this is funny

[Opinion Owner]

Only the panties part. Sowwy XC

[Anonymous]

Tell your dad so he can whoop you back straight Your Welcome

[Anonymous]

Yaaaaaaaaa, just don't wear them. lmao!

[SpicyBoiJay]

Own it boi. You do you.

[SpicyBoiJay]

Private message me if ya need.

[lkjhg69cum]

WTF? Seriously?

[darkslosh]

oh shut up, if you didn't like the question title i gave, dont fucking come here...