Should you call your daughter a "little bitch" for any reason?

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Pisses me off, I was doing something and my dad kept calling me over to watch a movie, & I said WHAT? & he said "Don't what me you little bitch!" 

I don't even.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Well, maybe you shouldn't have screamed "what." I would say "Don't 'what' me" as well, but I wouldn't have added the little bitch. However, if you were acting like a little bitch then I would. I texted my mother where she left the spare key when she left my house because I didn't hear where she said she put it as she was leaving and I got a response back saying,

"Why do you need to know? If you forgot, sorry, you have keys." - So, I responded back saying, "I never forgot because I never knew where it was in the first place. But if you want to act like a little bitch about it. . ."

It ended up being my moms husband that took her phone and said that. He responded back saying, "Dude, you better watch how you talk to your mother! You better respect her or else".

To which I said, " Or else what? And I wouldn't have to talk to "her" like that if YOU would've just answered a simple question instead of being a little bitch about it."

To which he said, "That's no excuse, we told you where we put the key, and you don't want to find out the 'or else' just don't talk to her that way, period!"

To which I said, "Are you threatening me? And I didn't hear what you said when you guys moved it, so, I didn't know where it was. Thank you for making this more difficult than it had to be. Lastly, respect goes both ways! Disrespect me and I won't respect you. That's how I am. My mom knows this, you should too!"

My mom came down yesterday because she left some of her shit at my place and I showed her the text message of all of that, and she was pissed that he would respond to me that way when all I did was ask a simple question and she said she would expect me to respond in the way I did, "Calling her a little bitch about it" because she would never talk to me like that and agreed that he was being a little bitch about it.

So, I think there is a reason to call your child or your parent a little bitch.. but only if they are actually acting like a little bitch.

kataloso · Accepted Answer

Your dad either doesn't love you or (more likely) simply lacks self control when it comes to the way he communicates with people he loves. Either way, break the cycle and try to rise above if/when you have children, so that you never speak to them that way.

Ozanne · Accepted Answer

That's a little harsh. I thought it was going to be something a little more serious like you came home falling over drunk and broke an antique lamp after barfing on the floor.

Even then I wouldn't think a parent should talk like this to their child, no matter how angry they get at them. Your relationship with your parents should be beyond that anger that they might exude to a stranger on the street who flips them off in traffic.

So my answer is NO, you father should not have spoken to you this way and you have every reason to be hurt. If he was trying to be funny then I think it's terrible humour, but to be this agitated for having to ask "what" when he wants you to watch a movie is ridiculously unwarranted.

Cookie0328 · Accepted Answer

My mom's called me a bitch many times before, but my Dad always yells at her and tells her to apologize to me. If I had a daughter, I know I wouldn't call her a little bitch at all, unless she did something that really, really pissed me off.

As for your details, you were ignoring your Dad when he was calling you over to watch a movie with him. and you yelled out what at him and he said "Don't what me you little bitch!" No offense, but I'm on his side. He was right to get angry at you, you were being disrespectful and rude. I don't think he should've called you a little bitch though

lumos · Accepted Answer

No. That's an incredibly disrespectful thing to say. As a parent, I think it's best to respect your kid if you want them to respect you back. Nobody's going to respect someone who calls them a "bitch" for the most stupid reasons. You should probably call him out on it and tell him that it was very rude of him. I doubt he'd like it if you called him "little dickhead" or something like that.

zombiebabe · Accepted Answer

its a total lack of respect... just tell him to stop wit this shit

Glitter_TE_ART · Answer

I'm an only child so whenever I do something wrong (like smoking weed in their house, stealing, lying by omission) it'll well up inside my father and while he's yelling in generally called a "selfish little brat/bitch" depending on the situation. We all apologize in the end because sometimes I need a kick back into reality and him telling me that does the trick, normally. Don't think much about it unless it happens again without a reason.

AnimeDreama · Answer

My stepmom used to call me all kinds of shit and treated me like dirt, before and after my dad died. Then I up and left the stupid whore and went to live on my own. Guess who isn't getting taken care of when she's 97 years old?

Anonymous · Answer

I grew up in dysfunction. I came out smelling like a rose but it was a long journey. Learn to see yourself and your loved/unloved (sorry lol I had to) outside of the bubble so once you are on your own you can identify these abusive traits in others so you can avoid them. The sooner you leave that the better. I do not know much of your situation but this is the only advice I can give with my instincts and the information you provided.

IamBarakaMbumba · Answer

He may be the person who spits words without thinking, does he got anger issues, if he does then the anger is the reason for not thinking before talking.

MissChickMia · Answer

Depends on how he said it too. But Never children. are a gift and should be taken much more seriously your dad needs help. By any chance does he drink?

findingdreamland · Answer

That is unacceptable. It doesn't matter how angry he was. People have to have control of their mouth.

luna33 · Answer

No never, and I would never allow her father or anyone else to call my daughter that way. Respect deserve respect and no child should be treated like that. Never! I hope he didn't meant it when he said to you. Tht is wrong!

Anonymous · Answer

That's messed up.

PrettyBama · Answer

When a child turns 18 all rules go down the drain and keep in mind you screamed "what" at him. Kinda mean.

harakiri · Answer

Hmmm... no. You should not. But our parents are human too, flawed and whatnot.

Stacyzee · Answer

Sounds like a great father! He simply meant female dog in the most kindest way possible!

Socal1 · Answer

No, never, but don't take it to heart. I'm sure he was not himself when he said it. Just remember actions speak louder than words.

pooper89 · Answer

I've been called a bitch by my mom before. It's not right. Personally if I have any kids, I would never call them any names out of anger. That shows that you're a weak parent

lordAlex818 · Answer

You're over 18, so you he doesn't really need to be a role model all the time. If you were acting like a bitch, it's okay to say that. If you weren't, then it isn't.

WhaChaChaKing · Answer

Nope, I made a joke one time and my dad called me a "spoiled little bitch" for it. I'm not even close to spoiled, and to this day I still want to punch him in the face.

You should never speak like that to your child. Disgusting.

musicbrain5 · Answer

A parent should never speak to their child like that, no matter how old they are.

knotme · Answer

Not acceptable at all. There is a level of respect you show towards your children and vise versus

Anonymous · Answer

Everyone is commenting on this as if they mama or daddy never said hurtful shit No its not ok but my dad has said a few awful things, as has my friends' dads

mario1321 · Answer

If i ever called my daughter that i would be ashamed of myself, and expect someone to put me in my place

genericname85 · Answer

lol :D either your dad is a jerk or has a good sense of humor.

TheDevilInside · Answer

call him old creep back.

kangy · Answer

That word should never be used.

Dragan · Answer

No. This is very bad.

hottchristity · Answer

Did u piss him off? And if so u deserved it.. /:

Acassa68287 · Answer

No. Not cool. Never.

dontworrybehappy · Answer

Your dad is a jerk. Don't worry

helva · Answer

Simply spoken: no

jayzee · Answer

Nope. Its very rude

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