What do I do if my friend's girlfriend likes me?

[Anonymous]

He is my best friend. I like this girl back. She ask me to hang out with them anytime she can. She flirts with me more than him. He doesn't give her enough attention so she comes to me. He is always mean to her so she comes to me.

[meplusabeemer]

The state of their relationship is their business only. If she is unhappy with him or how he treats her then it's up to her to talk to him and resolve it. If she doesn't want to do that then maybe she needs to make a decision about the relationship. Either way, do not get involved or sucked in because it will adversely affect your friendship. If he has been your best friend for years then I would not permit a girl to come between you both.

Moreover, she is being disrespectful by flirting with you! That is putting you in a precarious position. I am not sure if she is doing it to make her boyfriend jealous, to be spiteful or it's a game. What I do know is that it has "trouble" spelled all over it.

Stay away from her and don't trust her either.

[Annette83]

Don't do it unless you want to lose your friend.

Don't try to justify what you are doing by saying that he doesn't give her enough attention and that he's mean to her. He doesn't have her locked up... If she does not want to be with him, then she could break it off with him. He is your friend and there are many other girls in the world that you could be pursuing.

To me, it sounds like she is telling you bad things about him. You must have known your best friend for a long time. Do you really believe that he is a bad guy? Could it be that this girl is just trouble? I would stay away from her.

Good luck!

[cgiddings]

Agreed. Bros before hoes.

That being said... it sounds like your friend is a douche to the girl. You're not around them every minute of every day, there may be a reason for his seeming animosity or carelessness.

Either ask him if there's an issue with his relationship because you noticed he's not the nicest guy to her... or tell her to back down until she decides whetehr she wants to be with your friend anymore.

Don't get involved with the girl while she's with your buddy. Bad deal.

[jacquesvol]

Steer clear of her and wait until they dump each other: it's their problem, not yours.

[Anonymous]

Bros before hoes dude. Cardinal rule. Don't even entertain the idea.