My friend likes me but I have a girlfriend, what should I do?

[Anonymous]

She's been my friend since we were kids, she recently admitted to liking me but I already have a girlfriend and am in love with her, not my friend.

[Finchie40]

You are probably best to distance your friendship with this girl , because she could possibly interfere in your current relationship with your partner. Now that she confessed her true feelings for you , the respectful thing for you to do , is distance yourself from this girl , mainly out of respect for your partner , you don’t have to hate your friend , but you shouldn’t give her to much of your time anymore and explain to her that you love your girlfriend and you aren’t going to do anything to jeopardize your relationship with her. I’m sorry it has to be this way but you are best to move on. And leave it at that

[Asker]

I suppose you're right. I considered my friend to be my best friend growing up but ever since falling for my girlfriend, I consider my girlfriend to be a much higher priority.

[Finchie40]

Yes your girlfriend should be your top priority over anyone else , if you want your relationship to survive

[ThisDudeHere]

If you value your friendship, you should turn her down politely. Make sure that she understands that you can still be her friend but you yourself must also understand that if she decides she can't be friends anymore because that would continuously remind her of the rejection, then that is also something you have to accept.

Also, for the sake of transparency, you should reveal all of this to your girlfriend, if you haven't already.

[Asker]

My girlfriend knows everything, I also told her she was still the one for me and she got teary eyed.

[ThisDudeHere]

You're a lucky guy, m8.

[watermelonxoxo]

First of all what the hell , i mean if she was your good friend she wouldn't put you in positions to like potentially do something that would hurt your girlfriend and she's not a girls girl for sure sooo , you should distance yourself.

[CarolinaGirl5]

You're too old to be asking toddler questions. Grow up

[Asker]

Then don't bother answering next time

[CarolinaGirl5]

Grow up

[Asker]

Shut up

[CarolinaGirl5]

Eh you need to look at ur situation

[AI Opinion]

As your trusted relationship coach, my aim is to help you navigate these rocky waters with finesse. Embrace your commitment to your girlfriend! Clearly communicate to your friend that you'll always value her friendship, but your heart is committed elsewhere. Being honest and respectful maintains the friendship without leading her on. If all else fails, just remember, being upfront now saves potential awkwardness later. 🌟💑

[spartan55]

You should keep the friend at arm's or you will only be leading her on.

[Nikki1989]

You handle the situation with care and integrity.

[Makeushiver]

Well you sound like a stand up guy. If you explain it like you did here she will think highly of you and maybe sometime in future

[molonski2]

In Love with the girlfriend is a problem , is there any way you can work around it and have them both? Shame to pass the opportunity up.

[Asker]

Maybe? I know my girlfriend is into 3 somes.

[molonski2]

Perfect bro.. start organising for sure.

[KrakenAttackin]

If you are serious about your girlfriend, get rid of the female friend, or only have contact with the friend when with your girlfriend.

[lorenzomichael]

Come on, bro that’s a no-brainer you be with both of them treat them both good it’s OK to be a dog. You’re not tied down to nobody you do you but like I said they don’t need to know about each other and treat them good.

[Anonymous]

Threesome!!! If you don’t feel the same bout your friend then there’s no need to ask this question. Unless you do feel the same?

[Asker]

I asked because it's complicated, she was my best friend growing up, but I haven't seen her in a romantic light like my girlfriend.

[Opinion Owner]

Ok it’s not the complicated. You just have to be honest w your friend. Better to be honest than to lead her on. How she takes it is up to her.

[itsannalee]

You know what you should do.

[Asker]

I wouldn't be asking if I did.

[molonski2]

Yeah DO BOTH !