My mom is in to sexting, what should I do?

I found out her fake Facebook profile. She must forgot to logout, where she do sexting with many guys. She didn't send nudes to anyone. But she is having very dirty conversations with those guys.
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she is married. and for those who are saying its not my business, she is my mom and she is cheating on my dad so it is my business.
if she were single mother i could have understand her.

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  • First, I totally understand you care about your parents, but this isn't any of your business. You can't get involved. It's your mom's personal/private life and yes, she shouldn't be doing it, but it's not your call to make. For all you know your dad may even know about it? But if he doesn't, he'll find out eventually on his own not to worry. If she carelessly left it open for you to see for example, what's to stop him from seeing it sometime also that way? ie, she's going to make mistakes and he WILL find out eventually. If you say something to your dad, not only will it start a fight between them probably, but it's going to damage your relationship with your mom (even more than this does already) as well. I personally wouldn't get involved. If I did anything, maybe help your dad "discover" it, but indirectly somehow. Like, if her computer is left open like that again, somehow get your dad to look at it casually.

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  • If that was my mom I would first ask why she was doing rhis and see if there's any solutions for her to stop cheating on your dad.
    If it fails, tell your dad. He doesn't deserve to be cheated on.

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What Guys Said 28

  • So what? This is standard for women. They can't be open with or about their sexuality. They are constantly in panic to loose their reputation (which they don't have anyway) or to be shamed. The only way for them to live their ideas is by doing it in their "safe space". If you take this away from her, she might become a politician, feminist activist or social justice warrior. You wan't to destroy her?

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  • Parents are sexual beings too. After having kids, they can become stressed and sexually repressed. This is your Mom’s way of blowing off some steam. Let her have that. Also, if she’s in her 40’s, that’s when women typically get a higher sex drive. Let her have it.

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  • If your mom is single, just realize that she is human as well with desires. Especially if it's just sexting... that's not a big deal. It shows she isn't willing to bring just any guy into her life and make her daughter feel uncomfortable. However, if she is still married, that is a different story entirely. She would be potentially tearing a marriage apart.

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  • Why would you read her convos :D Your mom is a woman and it´s normal for women to do that. None of your business. Would you like you mom to meddle with your sexting? :D

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  • You should forget about it and mind your own business in the future.

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    • Isn't cheating?

    • I'm sorry. I misunderstood. Your mother is still involved with your father. That makes it much more complicated.

      You may want to tell your father because your mother is cheating or about to cheat on him. That may be true, but it also may not be the case.

      The bottom line is, until it becomes obvious what is going on, you should pretend that you don't know about it.

  • You should copy somewhere all the sexts and learn, young padawan!

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  • Make a fake account and sext with her, after some time tell her its you and tell her if she doesn't stop, you are going to tell daddy.

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  • I'm sorry to hear this... You must tell your dad about this because he deserves to know. That's the right thing to do irrespective of consequences.

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  • You should not tell her that you know it and think of it as a bad dream. She won't listen to you even if you try to help her

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  • She has a right to do whatever she wants. Would you be fine if i or anyone else interfered in your sexual activities?

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    • She's her mom. That's a completely different story to a friend. Her mom should not be indulging in her desires so easily and potentially destroying a marriage and family... unless she is a single mom. In that case the daughter should understand she has needs as well.

    • We don't know about the sexual relationship with her mom and dad either. And a married women would never do this unless she doesn't get it from her husband. And I'm talking about most women. There will be some exceptions tho.

  • It's none of your business. Just pretend you did not see it.

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  • Love her, and accept her life choices, but also let her know how it makes you feel.

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  • Respect her privacy. It's not really your business, shrug it off and let it be.

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  • Finally a version of sexting which I agree to. That can't be dangerous though, it's just texts.

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    • I'd like to disagree. It does have enormous addictive potential.

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    • ok thanks

    • It won't be easy, but I wish you the best of luck.

  • Try to find out why she is doing all this? Is she not happy with ur dad?

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  • So how can i get in to contact with her 😂😂😂😂

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  • Why is this a problem?

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    • Because she's married.

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    • I didn't need to investigate. I'm not Harlow Doyle. I asked a clarifying question to help me discern my next choice of words. Why are you questioning my question? Why does it bother you so much?

    • @AquaBoo I'm not questioning your question at all.

  • Is she single then let her live the life she wants

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  • Let her have her fun, I guess.

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    • After reading your update, I guess you could confront her if you want to get involved. It is better and braver to take your beef to whoever you have beef with, rather than e. g. ratting her out to your dad, which would be a bit cowardly and sneaky. So yeah, maybe tell her you disapprove.

  • she's having fun... leave her alone

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What Girls Said 4

  • Tell your mum you know

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  • Is she married?

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    • Yes of course

    • Oh.. welp. You have three choices. Don't say anything. Tell your mom that you know. Or tell your dad. Assuming that your mom's straight.

    • I wouldn't tell anybody else besides those two people though

  • That’s gross well what do you expect? We live in world where technology is dominating our lives. It was bound to happen. This is a live and learn kind of thing.

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  • Tell your dad.

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