Moms will be moms... Its her job to be really REALLY worried about everything, unless she is actually a really bad mother she will always be concerned at least about the important stuff in life. Which doesn't mean you should always listen. Even if she has more experience and knowledge you still are kind of allowed to rebel sometimes. She probably wasn't a goody two shoes all the way either. Just if she doesn't wanna talk about it find someone you really trust that will tell you what can happen if you decide to actually have sex with someone. Tho... dont let nothing and nobody preasure you into doing it.
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My mom was always crazy and worried about me having sex. I'm 23 and she still worries. Thankfully, she thinks I'm still a virgin lol it's completely normal for a mom to be worried about her daughter having sex, esp at a young age. Sex is a serious thing that should be meant for adults, but anyone can be affected by it. It can change your life and can come with consequences, some of which young and/or inexperienced people don't understand. She just worries because she cares and she has experience
Most mums , and dads too, do not want their daughters to grow up too quickly. Even more, they are worried about you getting pregnant. it is so easy, in the heat of the moment, to have sex without protection.
She doesn't want you to end up pregnant early, and it scares her since that's always a possibility if you aren't careful and don't use protection like condoms. But yeah, that's not normal. If you want to talk about it with her, hopefully you can tell her that it's important to you and ask her to listen.
in my opinion sex shouldn't be taken lightly, what's the point of doing things with somebody and then you don't know if you're going to wake up with them beside you. Now you're just hurt and it all was literally for nothing.
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Is she religious? Otherwise I'd say she doesn't want to get involved in any trouble like people would think less of you and thus of her, or you might even become pregnant or whatever. I had the same issues with my mother until she just assumed I'd have slept with a girl, and so she shouted at me about how wrong that was. She didn't even believe me that she was wrong, so whatever. Now she doesn't care anymore.
She might be worried that you will regret it or that you will get hurt she could also be worried that you may get an sti
she could be worried that you will fall pregnantYou're under eighteen, so it's illegal and could get an STD.
she's protective and ideally wouldn't want to see you GET HURT by a guy who DONT LOVE YOU.
I think all parents worry about this.. but she might've had a bad experience at a young age and doesn't want you to make the same mistake
100% normal... Because she know what boys your age are like...
Well you are underaged. She's probably worried that you might become pregnant
Well maybe she's just protecting you. Most of the teens have sex in early age and get pregnant
Parents don't like to think of their kids having sex. Better keep it on the down low.
I'd be worried, too...
Why do you talk about that with your mum?
She is afraid that you will get upset in the end
Are you from India?
she is being normal
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