I think my neighbor is hitting his girlfriend/wife?

Anonymous
well they only moved in a little while ago. a guy and a girl. and theyre both really young, only a couple years older than me.

but sometimes at night they have their television volume really loud and I can hear thumping around and crashing. at first I didn't know exactly I thought maybe they're moving things around or having sex idk. so I would fall asleep with my headphones in.

but a couple nights ago I didn't have them in and over the t.v I could hear the guy yelling very harshly and meanly and telling someone to "get over here" and "get the f*** up" and "shut the f*** up". I don't mean to be noisy but at this point I was kind of worried. when I see the women during the day I try and look if she has any bruises but I can't see any.

but last night was the worst because he was screaming and when she said something back I heard a slapping noise and crashing and a muffled scream and then women started to sob I heard the door slam and she was still crying for kind of a long time.

i wanted to call the police but I didn't want anyone to get upset at me because I know women in this type of situation can get very defensive. my mom works overnight so she doesn't hear it when I told her she told me to stay out of things and mind my own business. which I do feel I'm being a bit noisy but it's hard to ignore that kind of thing if its happening right above you.



i kind of get scared and it reminds me of my parents when I was little. that's why I want to help her. but like I said I don't want people to get angry at me or make it even worse for her and he beat her more because I told.

am I being too noisy like my mom says or should I call the police? I don't know what to do. I do want to help but like I said I don't want to make things even more bad. what do I do ?

I think my neighbor is hitting his girlfriend/wife?
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