We've been fighting about his baby mom. Will it get better?

[tempirl2012]

Ever since i found out My boyfriend got another female pregnant, we have been fighting every day. I mean he's not talking to her now, but he's still talking about her. He says things like my sex isn't enough we should invite her which pisses me off because he knows i don't like her. Then he'll say things like 'my baby mom knows how to wash dishes better than you' 'you're mad because she looks better than u that's why you keep calling/texting her. Yes i was contacting her for 4 months about him to make sure she stayed away. But he's Pissing me off... So i got up and i attacked him. I bite his arm, slammed his arm in the door, punched him in his face and he pulled my hair out. The next day, we will be back together and the same thing will happened all over again because of HER! He says he hasn't slept with her since March 2022. YET, he asked her about the baby and asked her when is it due. Will this get better? He says he only wants to be with me but every time i go through his phone, he has videos with a different female having sex with them. And yet, here i am sticking around worried if he's getting back with the pregnant baby mother who don't even call him. Smh.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like you're in a really difficult and complicated situation. It's important to remember that physical violence is never an appropriate or acceptable way to handle conflict or express anger, and it's important to seek help and support to address this issue.

It's also important to consider the dynamics of your relationship and whether it's a healthy and safe environment for you. If your boyfriend is consistently disrespecting you, comparing you unfavorably to his ex, and engaging in behaviors that are hurtful and damaging to your relationship, it may be worth considering whether this relationship is worth continuing.

While it's possible that things could improve with time and effort, it's important to address the underlying issues and work together to create a healthy and respectful relationship. This may involve seeking couples therapy or individual therapy to address issues around jealousy, trust, and communication.

Ultimately, it's up to you to decide what is best for your well-being and whether this relationship is meeting your needs and expectations. It may be helpful to seek support from trusted friends or family members, or to consult a therapist or counselor to help you navigate this difficult situation.

[Mrtcn01]

girll. you should break up with him. your boyfriend is sick.. and you dont have any value in his emotion. why you still with him.

[Anonymous]

Firstly if they had sex in March 2022 as you wrote above that means the baby would already have been born by now.

Secondly. Stop contacting the girl. She can go to the police and take out a restraining order against you

Thirdly. How many times do people need to tell you to leave the damn guy. He cheated on you and he has told you he would sleep with her again if given the chance to do so.

[Anonymous]

You make us look bad smh. You keep asking the same questions over and over again. It's obvious you're not going to leave him so why do you keep asking the same questions repeatedly? Just stop. Stay with him because you're obviously too filled with low self esteem to leave.

[Adaeva]

You should breakup. You don't need that aggravation

[In_Trance]

It will get better when you stop fighting

[KrakenAttackin]

Modern women, you create all of your own problems.

[Sparkie460]

You should leave him